I've had this happen to me before and my face turns red and I'm usually single when it's happened and I remember getting rejected before so I kind of make it very laughable in a roundabout way without hurting her feelings but I always say you know what we would just be better friends because John deep we know both of us know it will not work and that's the wrong thing to say. Because then they say well we could try. And I always say that always leads to broken heart though and I've had then say that's okay. And I say no it's not okay and I need to make it clear it's not because of what they look like it's because of who they are on the inside basically if they talk crap about people I don't like them if you think they're better than somebody else I don't like them all right just don't want a partner like that one
OTHER: Slightly flattered, but also kinda annoyed cause I'm put into a position where I now have to tell someone I'm not interested, despite having been on the other end of that so many times by women. I'd never be rude or mean to them though, unlike most uninterested women have been towards me. But I feel like it'd be wrong to disrespect someone or lead them on in that way.
And for the record, I am not attracted to feminist, polyamorous, transgender, overly religious (super Christian, Catholic, Muslim, etc), single mother, sex worker, really skinny, or queer/bisexual (gay) women.
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As far as my feelings for her: indifferent or repulsed depending on if we're talking about 'meh' or so fugly it would give you nightmares. The other side of it is I'd be concerned that if I reject her in the wrong way there could be negative consequences like she lies to her dumb brother/dad/husband about what I said or did. And yes I've seen this happen (even if the woman is attractive. her looks don't matter here).
Flattered but its really not her, it's me. In that I've got my own life I'm still figuring out. Oh well. Flattered but I would just politely let her down and she'll find someone else otherwise fate wouldn't have made it an obstacle. Again not her fault. It's me. 😜
I think mocking her is definitely way too cruel. That aspect aside, you're going to look like a complete idiot if you meet again in X number of years and she's actually kind of attractive by that point.
wow the "not good enough part" hurts. I'd assure her it's not that she's "not good enough". I've given girls i wasn't really that attracted to a shot too. Their personalities opened that doorway for them.
I panic. Just usually ignore or wait for it to be over. Men usually do the first moves so they are not as prepared as women in responses.
Its easier said than done to kindly say no thanks to date request.
Overall flattered, if i find myself single while being asked I probably wouldn't not give out a pity bone in all honesty unless she's just... Awful
Try to be nice to her to make sure I don’t hurt her and apologize to her with any excuse to make her not feel bad.
Id just string her along for all the dinner dates. She just wants my attention anyway, id trade that for a free meal all day
Take it as a compliment as I consider how to best let her down softly. Particularly if she's a friend
Why is there no "politely turn her down" option in the poll? I feel like that's the most reasonable thing and most would do it.
I would admire her initiative and go out with her most likely.
Well i will give hare a chance if things doesn't go well then I will avoid any kind of contacts because it's better to get rid of before it becomes harder
If she's ugly i will just be nice. If she's cute but not my type ill give her pity sex. Is she's attractive but a whore ill be offended she thinks id date a fucking whore? Wtf! Ill use her for sex and make fun of her with my friends.
This girl asked me to sugar baby her on Bumble today. I immediately unmatched her without notice. My name is not Johnathan
I just tell her she's not what I'm looking for in a girlfriend. I see no reeason to make a big thing about it.
I will go out with her and see where this thing goes. Im not a chooser. We may want something tht we want but we will get wht we deserve for. Like example, if my destiny is with this girl then so be it. Thts all
I politely explain that I’m a damaged, toxic piece of shit and that she’s better off not liking me.
I didn’t find my wife attractive at first but I did go out with her when she asked me. She was sneaky about it too. Turns out she likes to read and was really skilled at sex so we were an instant match.
I mean its rare for me to be so interesting that someone would ask me out but it’s nice to know someone finds me attractive and entertaining
Why would you think someone is not good enough for you? Are you really that conceded and selfish?
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