Should you ask a girl out whom doesn’t seem like you’re their type?

[Anonymous]

Well pretty much see this girl and I am not sure if I’m her type. She is the total opposite from me. She is white, beautiful, ambitious, loves to go out to bars and clubs, drink, wants a “cowboy” and party. Where as I am sort of ambitious, homebody, handsome but fat, don’t like to party, don’t drink, nice guy (sometimes to a fault, yep I know bummer), boring and yeah definitely not a cowboy. A lot of time I am weirdly attracted to girls who seem to be the total opposite from me when at first glance. I got her number, and got to the point where I asked a question and she hasn’t responded. So not sure with all that said or done, if I should even ask her out (just feel she wouldn’t even choose me, when she could get anybody). Well I should say in general, since I do tend to like girls who seem “out of my league.

[melanieeeB]

Why are you immediately assuming the worst? Why should she not like you?
Just ask her out and shoot your shot, if she says no, well okay then it didn't fit with this one but that's okay.

Don't talk yourself so down, I'm sure you are a great guy.
I would like to give you the advice to work on your self esteem.
If you aren't sure about your looks, get a haircut, go shopping maybe.
Other then that what things do you like, embrace your hobbies, get sure about who you are and what goals you have in life and yeah work on being more secure in yourself. Nothing is more sexy about another human.

[Changiis07]

Well you could just go for it and prepare for the worst. You will never know if she may be attracted to you as well