My boyfriend doesn’t like one of my friends?

[Anonymous]

One of my really good friends has made comments about my boyfriend and now he doesn’t like her. They haven’t really gotten to know each other at all because I barely see her but when we have all been together he was really quiet (he’s naturally quiet around people he doesn’t know) and the next day she text me saying “why was your boyfriend giving me dirty looks”. He said he wasn’t his neutral face just looks pissed off when he’s not.

Another time we were together she looked at him and said “I don’t bite like”. He said he doesn’t like the comments she’s been making and that she’s being cheeky. I feel like she’s probably right, he is quiet but should make more of an effort. Am I wrong?

[Jonnywayne]

If your friend behaves meanly towards your boyfriend, you shouldn't be surprised if he doesn't like her. I can't say whether she has any reason for it, maybe she's somehow jealous of you, for having a boyfriend, or of him because he's taking her friend away from her.

[Billlewis]

Get a six pack of beer or some wine and spend a couple of hours with both of them, and discuss what went wrong and how to start over fresh.

[LuminousMind]

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[Anonymous]

I don’t even know her, but just from reading this I don’t like her either. Something about her gives me bad vibes, likes she’s “toxic.” One of those girls who tries to get their girlfriend to dump their man because she’s jealous. Whether it’s because he’s taken most of your time from her or because she’s single. Either way she sounds like she’s going to be a problem. What did she say about him? How long have you two been together?

[spartan55]

So it's okay for your friend to talk shit and be rude to your boyfriend, but he has to make more effort? Yeah, fuck that.

[boggboss]

He wouldn't want to make a effort if he has a negative opinion on her

[Asker]

But I feel like he shouldn’t have a negative opinion of her she hasn’t really done anything wrong

[boggboss]

Apart from make comments that have rubbed him the wrong way

[Asker]

I told him she’s naturally abrupt but he feels she’s being rude or assuming things about him that aren’t true. I know he wasn’t giving dirty looks but he does look standoffish naturally and he’s quiet

[boggboss]

So...

[Asker]

I feel like he is in the wrong.

[boggboss]

OK so tell him that

[Asker]

You give the worst advice ever why are you even on this website geez. Why even bother typing back ok.. need I even guess you’re probably American. Thank god for Europe

[boggboss]

I'm from London and their is no advice to give u because u seem reluctant to speak to him about the issue which is the only way to fix this he at this point already has a negative viewpoint of your friend its irrelavent if u think he is in the wrong because he dont view himself in the wrong so unless u are here just to cry sort your shit out and communicate with your partner

[spartan55]

@asker
So the better plan for you is to not communicate with him about being wrong.

[jahaims]

Boggboss gives some of the best opinions on gag. You don't want advice. You are here to hear what you want to hear.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

What many of us guys dont like, is gossiping. And if we see that our girlfriend is having friends that gossip badly about us its rather unpleasant. Soon over 100 women know about our sexual life, false rumors, bad habits etc.