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Gym employees think I have a crush on PT (I guess) Whenever I walk into room they laughing, smiling each other etc.
I said confidently "hey guys what's going on if they're talking behind of my back" like I'm joking around. They swear "they never say bad anything about me"
When I talk to PT guy, feels awkward because He's smiling talking to me etc. Then that moment feel uncomfortable. I feel like something is going on.
What it can be? What do you guys suggest?
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Ah man, that sounds like an awkward situation. I bet those gym guys were definitely talking about you having a crush on the PT! Guys that age can be real immature about that stuff.
I wouldn't worry too much about what they're saying though. Easier said than done I know! Just try to act friendly but not flirty with the PT so there's no confusion. Maybe make a joke like "you guys better stop gossiping or I'm finding a new gym!" to lighten it up.
If it really bothers you, you could always ask the PT directly if he's getting the wrong impression. But he might feel embarrassed too so go easy on him. Either way, don't let it stop you going to the gym. Just show them you don't care what they think! Those guys will move on to teasing someone else real soon.
I DID you said! :) I asked confidently "Hey guys what's going on, are you guys talking behind of my back hahaha" like joking. They literally swear "they never say bad anything about me" "They only say I put on work, I'm cool etc."
But there is something going on between me and PT that I don't understand. PT's one of his co-worker asked me "What's my type" "What's my ideal first date"...
Woah wait, hold up. Things are starting to sound a little suspect now.
If one of the other PT guys is asking you stuff like what your type is and about your ideal first date, that definitely makes it seem like maybe the PT has told them he's interested in you or something. Especially if all the employees keep giggling and making comments when you're around.
I'd say at this point it's pretty likely the PT has the hots for you. Which like, don't mean you gotta like him back or anything. But it would explain why everything's so awkward and they're always smirking n' stuff.
If I were you, I'd try chatting with just the PT alone next time. Casually be like "so what have you really been telling the other guys? Cuz they're acting strange." See how he reacts and what he says.
Then you can get an idea how he truly feels without all the other guys around egging things on. Don't feel pressured either way, but might help clear the air ya know? Good luck, keep me posted what goes down!
He IS interested in me or they think I'm interested in him? Maybe I should get another gym membership? I told them it feels like they're talking behind of my back today because they giggling etc. If I cancel my membership they'll understand that I felt uncomfortable.
You know, I'm just not sure what to think. This whole thing is really strange.
On the one hand, maybe the PT guy actually is interested in you, or the employees really think you like him back. That would explain all the flirting, asking about your type, and giggling when you're around.
But it's also possible they're just messing with you for laughs and it's all some big joke. Guys can take things too far sometimes without meaning anything by it.
I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable though. That's totally valid. If changing gyms would make you less stressed about the whole situation, then yeah maybe that's the best call.
At least you tried talking to them about it today. And if you quit your membership, they should definitely understand why if they're being dumb about this. It's not fair for them to make you question stuff like that just for jokes.
Don't wanna speculate too much more and stress you out further. Follow your gut - if a new gym would help you focus on working out without distractions, then go for it man. Don't feel bad about prioritizing your own comfort.
I don't know. Who's Gym team? How would I know how he feels? Why don't you ask him?
Gym personal trainers. I don't care about him but I feel like something is going on about other people between me and him and they're laughing while we're talking etc.
I read the room, Room feels awkward.
I don't have a crush on someone.
I've felt that way, too.
What you felt? My question is what's going on and whay should I do because it feels uncomfortable at gym
His co-worker asked me "What's my type" "What's my ideal first date" I'm like why this guy asking me these questions
So your opinion?
Your opinion @FunkyMonkee
I guess they're just trying top find out the kind of guy you'd like to be with.
Confusing. Are you trying to set me up with him or they think I have crush on him?
Confusing. Are they trying to set me up or they think I have crush on him?
It's possible.
Which one you think? As conclusion?
Maybe he likes you and is trying to get you to go out with him and they might've dared him to do it..
But do you have a crush?
I don't