I asked my boyfriend whether he was thinking about another girl and he said it's not that. What does it mean?

[Anonymous]

[RedInnocent68]

Take it at that. While true we think about sex all the time. Thinking about other girls rarely stops us from enjoying the one we’re with. It’s more likely something at work we can’t talk about, something we haven’t formulated enough to express, or something really trivial like why Darth Vader doesn’t recognize C3-PO and R2-D2. Occasionally, it might even be about you, but not something either of you probably really want to discuss like, did you do this with so-and-so, or did you enjoy him more, that sort of thing… Guys are surprisingly sensitive and have a lot of unexpressed anxiety.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Care to fill us up a bit more with information, what was the conversation about and that led you to asking that question to him?

[Asker]

He came home from gym stressed. I thought that was weird so I asked him if he was stressed about a girl and he said it's not that.

[Asker]

So that means he is thinking about another girl but that's not the reason he says he's stressed for? Am I right?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then the next question should've been, what the problem was that he seems stressed, he shouldn't have an issue telling you, did you ask him?

[spartan55]

Of course not.

[Asker]

Okay everyone go listen to the spartan of the ancient Greeks 😂 he knows!!

[spartan55]

Well did you?

[Asker]

Sure mate whatever floats in your fantasy world haha

[spartan55]

Didn't think so.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I was genuinely trying to help but okay

[sheikalana]

Means he's not thinking about another girl. He's thinking of something else.

[Holsen]

It means he was concerned about something else or he had things going on with him, it doesn’t mean that he is thinking of another girl!!

[spartan55]

Why the hell would you ask him that?

[Asker]

Well because I want to

[spartan55]

Well, go ahead and keep that up. That's a great way to way to get him to dump you.

[Asker]

Nah I think I'm good

[spartan55]

Not comin at him like that you aren't.

[Asker]

Lol ok go off and live your life mate

[spartan55]

Just tryin to help you out.

[Blueeyes81]

It's not that.

[Asker]

It's not that, meaning he is thinking about another girl although that's not what is stressing him out. Ok thanks.

[Blueeyes81]

No. It's quite literal. You asked, he answered. There is no need to try and read between the lines. He wasn't thinking about another woman. Hence, "Its not that"

[Asker]

I don't really care tbh "It's not that" means that is a reason but it's not that lol

[TheGuyYouCrave]

It means he is thinking about someone for another reason. But, who knows, people lie.

What is the relationship like.

[Asker]

no caller id called him tonight at 11:53pm and he wouldn't answer it, he just does weird things that makes me question him

[TheGuyYouCrave]

Yeah. He is cheating. Or doing something that you don't or he does not want you to know.

[Anonymous]

Need more info. What was going on at the time you asked him this?

[Wise4myage]

Press him for an answer.

[Asker]

😂😂

[Luckycharms12]

Of course he does we all fantasize about other people

[Jerre]

I don’t think he’s thinking about another girl. Impossible to say with the info you provided.

[Sunnybeach123]

What prompted you to ask him that?

[Asker]

Well he's a cheater that's why I asked. He got with me out of cheating his last relationship so just asked that question out of curiosity

[FenixG45]

No idea. Ask him!