Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNot all guys have the same preferences, but in general, unexpected drunk calls can be seen as disruptive or inappropriate. It's important to maintain respectful communication and boundaries in any relationship. If you want to reach out to someone, it's often better to do so when you're both sober and can have a meaningful conversation.
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Thank you. I thought guys saw drunk calls as confirmation that a girl really likes them
Opinion Owner+1 ySome individuals may interpret drunk calls as a sign of affection or interest, but it's not a reliable or recommended way to express your feelings. Open and honest communication when you're both sober is generally a more effective and respectful way to convey your emotions and intentions. Misunderstandings can easily arise from drunk communication, so it's best to approach serious conversations when you're in a clear state of mind.
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Thank you !! This was very insightful. I am just a really shy and socially awkward person so I find it quite difficult to communicate when I’m sober so I tend to do so when I’m inebriated… cause it’s easier for me
Opinion Owner+1 yI understand that social anxiety can make sober communication challenging. It might be helpful to work on improving your confidence and social skills over time. Remember that you're not alone in facing these challenges, and many people have successfully overcome similar hurdles.
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Thank you so much! You’re very kind
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You’ll find someone who loves the way you are and you won’t need to be drunk to have a good conversation with him
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This is so true! But let’s say you miss the person and didn’t have the balls to reach out while sober so you decide to do so while drunk so you can see them. Does it look bad or? What are your thoughts?
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The trouble with alcohol is that people will never stop talking and the conversations can last hours with them repeating themselves over and over again and if that happens regularly then it’s not enjoyable. I don’t drink alcohol myself or I drink rarely and little so that would become tedious for me. But hey, if I liked the girl I’d tell her to open up when she’s not drunk. You just have to be yourself. Some people won’t find you cute but some would.
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1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Depends on how drunk she is , if she is just buzzed and can pretty much understand what we are talking about then yes her a little drunk or buzzed doesn’t bother me , if she is bombed and I can’t understand her than No , I would just laugh and tell her to get some sleep and talk to her when she is sober, I like to drink craft beer and I pretty much know how to control myself for the most part , I pretty Much know my limits , I enjoy getting buzzed because it makes me feel relaxed and happy , and not really a care in the world , Just having a good time , mainly with friends or whoever wants to join me , I also enjoy the taste of beer , if I go over my limit which does happen at times , I usually just go to bed and sleep it off , but if I am just buzzed , I am more relaxed and outgoing and enjoy conversations, so yes if she called me wanting to talk and she is just buzzed or a little drunk I would enjoy chatting with her , I would probably crack a beer and join her and talk to her for hours on the phone unless she wanted to come over and fuck than that’s even better lol
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+1 yMost likely not because that title might come with connotations.

Realistic drawing of me last night. Also, the circumstances of the drinking might have a lot to do with if it's taken in a bad way or not. Is the whole point to get drunk? Or is he in the middle of some pissing contest to prove he can handle drinking that much? ... context matters.
Call me drunk and I'll probably just ask you if you're jealous. But I don't give a shit... I can't speak for people that do give a shit though.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yDepends on who and when and what she wants.
Good scenario: cute girl I went on a few dates wants a booty call. Best time for her to call me would obviously be after 8pm and before midnight
Bad scenario: girl I’ve been dating for a while is upset about something and the liquid courage drives her to call me and speak all the nasty things on her mind. Worst time for her to call would be during the middle of work day or if I’m engaged with another activity that fully needs all my attention.
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+1 yI'm sure someone does. Pretty much the opposite effect on me. Women call all the time, just sloppy drunk, and one, I don't get drunk in public and two if I'm at home and I AM drinking, I'm not sloppy drunk like you are, so we aren't vibing together, plus I was probably doing something and drunk people are hard to get off the phone without just hanging up and turning my phone off. You're drunk and you're horny, gotcha. You're also about to pass out. Get somewhere safe.
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Totally understandable. Would this also extend to someone you genuinely like?
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Yeah even more so, because I'm not hard pressed to date someone who's sloppy in public ever, so now I've lost seeing her as a possibility.
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So you would prefer she’s more in control of her liquor?
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Yeah, except it's not a "prefer" thing, it's a requirement.
+1 yNot if a girl calls me from the club, loud music in the background, her just yelling random words etc.
In my opinion it is degenerate and unattractive.
But "normal" drunk is fine. As long as I can understand you and you are mostly coherent.00 Reply722 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. If I were back in Australia and I was of comparable age to the questioner , I would like it , but I certainly wouldn't like it here in Asia because it would show a complete lack of class ( vast majority of females dont drink ) , so its horses for courses I guess.
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+1 yUnlikely considering if anything sexual happens and you wake up and decide you didn't like it you can accuse him of rape and his life is over even though you wanted it when you were drunk. Worse still from personal experience being drunk doesn't necessarily stop women from trying that
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Correction* being sober doesn't necessarily stop women from trying that.
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+1 yAs in a phone call from someone who is drink or verbally say you are drunk
Because the latter if I am, okay I'll accept
The former well I don't give my phone number to all and sundry so the few people with it aren't stuck calling type of people00 Reply - 579 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
+1 yWhen someone is called drunk, it implies that they seem like they're being awkward socially, too loud, and it's usually a negative connotation, so the answer is no. No one really likes being called drunk.
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+1 yWay before we got married, my husband told me that he honestly found me amusing "which is good" but also disturbing because I sounded "possessed" and that sometimes turned him off.
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+1 yNo. It’s very UNattractive. It is only attractive to guys who see you as an easy piece of meat.
any man whom you want to respect you, will lose respect for you if you drunk call him
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+1 yI only ever drunk called a guy once and it went something like
“You know I think your the best and deserve everything nice but nickels are just mini quarters that sometimes you could eat”
Yea he still won’t let me live that down and now I know my limit so tipsy calls never drunk10 Reply
+1 yDrunk calling my ex to tell him I miss him? He does not.
Drunk calling a guy I am dating to tell him I want to come over right now and suck the soul out of him? Yes.
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+1 yit can be funny or fun but it can also be annoying. so i think generally speaking a call from a buzzed or kinda drunk girl is fun but the wasted drunken call is more an annoyance
00 Reply 3.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It never happened to me but I probably would not like some drunk chick calling me in the middle of the night asking me what I think about blowjobs.
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+1 yI rarely to never drink and I never drunk call anyone. I don’t think it’s a nice thing to do.
10 Reply8.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Depends on the guy I tend to just see it as attention seeking
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So you wouldn’t even entertain it?
+1 yLol. Not really. I guess it depends on how someone handles alcohol and what they’re calling about.
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Not a whole lot. I had a drunk call asking me to pay for a lot of shit. Drunk girls want stuff from you.
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+1 yI don't date women who get drunk, especially those that are out getting drunk without you but with other people/guys.
Hard no on that.
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+1 yMine likes it, since all I do is compliment and flirt with him when intoxicated💀
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+1 yIf I was called drunk it's probably because I had been drinking. But I still wouldn't care if someone said I was even if I wasn't. Unless it's a cop that had pulled me over for driving crazy...
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+1 yNo lol. One of my friends is an alcoholic, and he always gets butthurt when I call him out. They're very sensitive, because they know deep down that they are trainwrecks, and they're ashamed of it.
10 Reply I think they prefer you to call them by their name.
00 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I don't drink, and I wouldn't find that funny in most contexts.
00 ReplyDepends on what kind of drunk the girl is. Sometimes it’s a huge turn off.
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+1 ySure. A drunk call is much more likely to end in sex.
10 ReplyWould you like it, when they call you at 1 AM?
I don't think so.
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+1 yI don't.
Women who drink alcohol at all are not worth dating.02 Reply- +1 y
Okay, and men who do are?
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1. I'm straight, so all men, regardless of what they do or don't do, are not worth dating.
2. I've never drank alcohol.
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+1 yGenerally speaking, yes most guys probably would.
00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I don't mind it. I always think some alcohol lets people show their true feelings.
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Right! So you would see that as confirmation that the girl truly likes you?
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What if she has mentioned it before?
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+1 yDepends on your connection with him, if he has interest in this woman it might rub him off wrong
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Thank you. Why would it rub him off wrong?
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Because if he was dating you for something serious, this changed his perspective on you.
1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Would you care to add some context?
if not, hell no!!! Who wants to deal with inane idiocy?
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+1 yNope.
Unless it my OH, and she's calling at 2am to say she's home safe00 Reply It is not going to happen because I don't drink.
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+1 yIf you called me drunk, you'd probably be right. 🤣
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+1 yI don't call people drunk. I don't go to bars.
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+1 yNo, it hurts their feelings. Now, if you call them while you’re drunk, on the other hand…
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+1 yIt's quite funny normally but occasionally can be annoying
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If it were someone you liked, would you mind?
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The hell nooooo
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Haha! That’s good to know
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+1 yI think they prefer to hear you sober.
40 Reply not at all it is so tarty and not liked at all
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+1 yIn my youth I didn't care. Now I don't have the patience for drunk people.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yDepends whether they're drunk or not I'd imagine. Would you like a guy calling you a sloppy drunk if you were completely sober?
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+1 yDon't think guys or girls like drunk calls normally someone horny trying to get lucky
00 Reply 14.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yea we love you incoherent ass calling for no reason
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI don't... unless I can get sex and she won't remember.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yi don't think any gender likes that
30 Reply7.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I would hope not.
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+1 yAre you slow? Who raised you?
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Hey sweetie. I could ask you the same question cause if someone decent had raised you you’d know that it costs you literally nothing to be nice or scroll past something if you have nothing of value to say. Enjoy your day
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Either you weren't raised correctly or your parents are non-existent. Get a brain
Of course not.
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+1 yyes we do it is flattering
00 Reply 4.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Lol no that's boring
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+1 yDepends on if your an angry drunk or a funny drunk
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. NOT ESPECIALLY
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+1 yGood question
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yonly if it involves a blowjob
00 Reply9.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Probably not
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+1 yNo. Red flag.
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+1 yNo..
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Not me
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Why not, if I may ask?
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Right. I mean people slip up now and then.. what if it were someone you really liked? You still wouldn’t?
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Understandable. Thanks
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