A guy I hook up with for the last almost 4 years all of a sudden started texting me everyday about 4 months ago. Popped up at my job on my lunch break (30 minutes away) and took me to get food. He’s also done a few things for me abs he offered. I’ve never asked him for anything. He didn’t text me until late last night Ave te said “ no hi 👋🏼 all day 😔” I hardly ever text him unless he text me first so I don’t know why he would send that. I’m kind of confused about it but I don’t wanna make a big deal out of it. I responded Sorry I was working but hey, how have you been today and he said I’m fine honey thanks for asking”.
Do you think he’s catching feelings or just keeping me on the hook?
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It's difficult to say for sure, as I don't have access to his thoughts and feelings. However, his recent actions, like texting you every day, taking you out, and offering to do things for you, could suggest that he may be developing deeper feelings. The "no hi all day" message might indicate that he was missing your interaction. If you're unsure about his intentions, it's a good idea to have an open and honest conversation with him to clarify where you both stand and what you want from the relationship. Communication is key in such situations.
A guy that keeps you in a hook up for that long without trying to take you out on a date within that time is 100% definitely not worth dating what so ever.