My boyfriend is texting with his female coworker whenever I'm not around.
I've had enough so I confronted him with the words "why aren't you texting/calling her whenever I'm not around, are you hiding sth?".
He was visibly confused and said "I'm not hiding anything".
Maybe he doesn't text her because he wants to give you his attention when you're together. That's what I do. It would be kind of rude to spend time texting when you're hanging out with someone, don't you think?
Depends on the content of the messages I guess.
And what is their relationship? Are they maybe long term friends?
But once he starts deleting conversations or gets upset if you ask to see what they are talking about... then he is most likely hiding something
What Reason After FIVE to Text HER? When You Are NOT AROUND? Let Him Show You These Texts... Red Flags. Sneak!!! xxoo
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If you are with someone whose in the top 10% of men, no doubt.
What's the content of their messages? And how do you know they've been texting each other?
If the texts are just about work related things, then He shouldn't mind showing you the texts.
I dont think he is hiding something if he is openly stating it.
But I need more background info though, what kind of texts are they sending one another?
Ask to see if
He delete the messages
If he puts a new code on phone
Never want sex with you
That means he screwing
My choice bye asshole
You should breakup because it is pretty obvious that the trust is not there.
Definitely sounds like he is hiding something.
Based off of the information you provided I think you're overreacting
Need to prove it. Id be confused and pissed off if come out nowhere too
u How could anyone know if he is lying or not
You're nuts he needs to leave
Go through his phone sis
