Why would a guy who was besties with a girl cut off contact with her because she liked another guy? Why would he want to get back in contact with her?

[Anonymous]

He cut off her for 3 months. He told his friend he wants her to FaceTime him.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo, that's some real head-scratching stuff from your boy. Couple things could be up:

- He caught feelings for her at some point but was too scared to tell her. So when he found out she liked someone else, it hurt him bad and he dipped out.

- Dude might've been tryna make her jealous or think he didn't care by cuttin contact for months. Now he's like "miss me yet?" tryna get some attention.

- Could be he likes being the only guy friend she's close with and the competition bugged him out. Wants to keep you on rotation, if you feel me.

- There's a chance he was just in a mood at the time over some other ish, and now he misses kickin it and shootin the breeze.

- Or he wanted you to realize how much you value him as a homie once he was gone. Emotional games 101 type move.

I'd say be cautious if you link back up. Feel him out and see what's really good - if he actually just tryna mend the friendship or if he on some weird jealousy trip still. Protect your energy sis!

[Anonymous]

He changed his mind.

[Asker]

I think he playing games.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that’s very possible.