Am I wrong to NOT want my boyfriend's married couple friends to spend the night with us?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has this married couple friends who he has been friends with for like 20 years and says they seem to be happy married and they have been there for him through some pretty dark times and he keeps pushing and pleading and even has gotten angry over having them spend the night with us and my saying no because she made a VERY clear pass at my boyfriend (she slowly lifted her skirt up quit highly towards him) in mine and her husband's presence to the point that I noticed her husband lift his eyebrow. They only live like an hour and a half away from us and his argument is that he would like us all to hang out together for our two days off without them traveling back and forth and I have told him that I am fine with us having them over from the time we wake until time to go bed and then they go home but he is not happy with that.

[petitedollbabee]

Are there any motels/hotels that they can stay in close to your house? That solves both problems. They won’t be staying in your house, and they also won’t be travelling all the way back to their home every night.

[Asker]

Within 15 to thirty minutes of here there are plenty of hotels but they took him in and let him live with them for a few months during/after his divorce he tells me this is rude to expect that of them. But you know your answer got me thinking of something else. He has mentioned a time or two that him and I could stay overnight not far from where we live in his parents farmhouse so if he trust them so well why not have them stay at our house and us stay there?

[Asker]

Also I want to mention that "our" house belongs to him and I moved in with him. I don't understand why it even has to be two days visit. If we all visit from wake until bed i feel like shouldn't that be good enough? Honestly, I really do not even enjoy their company but he practically accused me of not wanting him to be friends with them and that was never what I said or meant even if she does make me uncomfortable and jealous. I also have a problem with the fact that she was in his phone contacts but her husband was not.

[jahaims]

He doesn't respect you if he remains friends with someone who doesn't respect your relationship

[Asker]

Thank you

[balyai]

It's normal how you feel

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Yes, why are you so against it?

[Asker]

Because I do not trust this woman in the same house with my boyfriend while I am sleeping. She was coming onto my boyfriend in a very obvious and bold way in my presence and her husband's presence.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, that makes sense.