What should I do if I'm in love with a boy, but my guy best friend is now with the boy?

[Anonymous]

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my bestfriend got together with my crush and now I'm building resentment. any advice would be much appreciated

[_Maya_]

So not sure what you are asking. Maybe it is the way that it is worded. You like a guy that is with your best guy friend? If that is the case you do nothing. You don't want to be the one to break up a relationship. You also don't want to betray your friendship with your BEST friend. You will likely lose that friendship forever. So if he is truly a friend then you leave them be and stay out of it. If I have misunderstood your question please correct me and I will revise my opinion. Hopefully I got it right though.

[_Maya_]

Unfortunately there is nothing you can do but deal with it. You don't want to lose a best friend. Think of it this way... you try and get with this crush and he doesn't have the same feelings. Your best friend finds out and hates you. Now you have nothing.

[SolsticeSnow]

I dont think there's much you can do. Your crush likes men.

If your best friend got with him knowing you liked him though... maybe he's not a very nice friend.

[RavVid]

Your crush and best friend are in a same sex relationship? That would seem non viable for you to have got into a relationship. Unless I am misunderstanding.

[ProbablyClueless]

It sounds like the guy you like is gay, so you're probably just going to need to come to terms with the idea that as a woman, you aren't really his type.

[Billlewis]

Consider dating them both for a while, until you decide which one is going to be the luckiest guy in the world;)

[DarkWinterNights]

Whether he’s bi or gay, I don’t think it will ever work out with you. It’s tough, but you’re going to have to force yourself to move on.

[ThrillSeeker01]

If your best friend has a steady relationship with him, I would move on and try to find someone else. If not, I would wait around and maybe see what happens.

[mohannad5]

Your best friend cannot be compensated for anything, and he deserves sacrifice. Life does not depend on one person. There are many options.

[Imaguyandagirl]

You should respect that as they both agreed and it will not help your reputation to argue about it

[boggboss]

So the guy your in love with is gay or bi

[boggboss]

Stop being jelouse they are together because they picked eachother

[exitseven]

you should forget about it.

[Staximus]

Find a straight guy

[slatyb]

Fond a straight guy.