I might be in love with my guy best friend help?

[Anonymous]

Me and my best friend who is a guy we have a connection we are born 2 weeks apart but I was late we almost had the same brithday his birthday was my due date anyway we are same age we like most of the same things and he tells me pretty much everything and we kissed once or twice and did a little feeling but we are not together and my friend who is a girl thinks we look cute but he likes blonde hair girls so I know I don’t have a chance how do I stop from loving him more than a friend

[RK42018]

First i gotta ask how do you know he only likes blonde women? And really I've learned if there is that much tension between friends a cure that worked for me and my girl best friend was go out one night and don't even talk about it just ask him to stop at a store for a drink and when he gets out to go in just tell him to buy some condoms too if he is down for it and just find somewhere to screw right in the car. I know not romantic at all but thats the point you want dirty fun not romance if y'all both are in love then he'll show it back but if its just lust then the mystery is done and the tension is releaved. Just my opinion

[Asker]

He told he likes blond hair woman

[whosnumber1]

I had the same thing with a girl in high school. Best friends who snuggled... pffff. ha! then I reconnected with her my 20s and started having sex and were together for a little more than I year. it sounds like you two are compatible and probably should be dating a bit. I say make a move... besides you can always die your hair.