Is my guy bestfriend in love with me?

[Malia0505]

So me and my guy bestfriend we have sex occasionally but we both don’t like eachother like that but on his birthday two days ago we both were drinking and we had sex and he told me he loved me and I couldn’t believe it does a guy mean it when they say that while having sex because he’s never said it during sex he has told me I love you when we are hanging out as friends but never in the bed and I am just afraid because we have been bestfriends for almost 3 years and he’s told me before he doesn’t have feelings for me can that change?

[spartan55]

Friends don't have sex... stop pretending everyone is stupid

[Anonymous]

Nah it's his hornynes speaking not his heart... lol

[Malia0505]

If that is true I will be so relieved lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yes no worries even I say I love you so many times when i fucked my friends with benefits so it's just for good sex...

Nothing serious babe.

[Wise4myage]

What was your gut feeling when he said he loved you?

[Malia0505]

That he does mean it or that he for sure has some sort of feelings for me even if it’s not in love

[Wise4myage]

That makes sense to me.

[Malia0505]

I just don’t know what to do I ubered home after it all and I haven’t talked to him about it yet and I’m afraid to

[Wise4myage]

Give yourself some time to think about it.

[Malia0505]

Yeah that’s what I’m doing for now

[Wise4myage]

Sounds good! Best of luck to you. :)

[Malia0505]

Can people’s feelings just change though over time?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, I think so.

[Alex8736]

It's friends with benefits so if that has been working out well don't change anything