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that's not the first time. We went to the cinema a few times, but it was always just the three of us. He also invites me to his place and we always sit together, just the three of us.
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Not sure if it's suspicious, unless he is sleazy or making sexual innuendo or hinting at a threesomes. But maybe it is slightly unusual behaviour, he might just value your friendship.
Maybe.
I hope he doesn't do it out of pity because I'm friends with his friend and I don't have anyone
No, it wouldn't be out of pity, it's likely friendship or he maybe wants you too.
I hope it is friendship.
Thank you for your opinion.
You're welcome, have a good day.
Yes if he’s asking you to go alone w him, most likely he’s trying to get at you. Whether that’s to steal you from your man or to just nail you. If he’s gay than maybe he’s just friendly, likes you as a girlfriend.
He is not gay. he has a girlfriend, they are in an informal relationship and she is my friend
Most men try to befriend cute girls in hopes of getting between their legs. Especially men who don’t have a shot at her. If you’re cute, chances are he sees you in that way. What does his girlfriend think?
she is happy that we are getting along
because he doesn't have many friends. Besides, he talks to me normally and she can also learn something, so it doesn't bother her
What about your man? How does he feel about this? You said it’s just you and his friend sometimes right?
I don't have a guy. It is only me, him and his girlfriend
Maybe he is just nice to me or he like me as a friend. Nothing more.
Ok. My apologies I misread that. So yes to me in a way it’s still a little suspect. Like I said men tend to befriend women who are cute. Are you cute? He may be doing it to please his girlfriend, but I couldn’t say for sure. Do you feel like it’s suspicious?
What do you mean by an informal relationship?
If you’re cute there’s no such thing as men just liking you as a friend unless he’s gay.
he doesn't want to admit that they are together, he doesn't call her his girlfriend.
and tells her that she should find a boyfriend
lol than he’s keeping his options open. Which includes you. Women need to understand that again men tend to befriend the cute women for a reason. A lot of my female friends are cute. Especially when I was younger, nailed numerous female “friends” of mine. Maybe he’s trying to get a threesome going.
I think a bit yes. because he only invites me. he doesn't invite other friends, but he could.
and my friend just keeps telling me that he said we're going to the cinema and he'll invite me right away.
I’m pretty sure he has his eyes on you sexually as well. That’s kind of a fucked up thing to say to a girl who you’re supposed to be in a relationship w. He wants sex from her w out committing to her. Would you say he’s cute, handsome?
thank you for your opinion
is very helpful
Can i ask you one more question?
Yes fire away I love answering women’s questions
Is not related with this.
But I got 2 questions 😁
1. Recently, I made an appointment with a friend to go to the store, but I ended up meeting a guy I really wanted to see. so unfortunately I lied to him a bit. because he doesn't like him and I knew how he would react. he found out about it and now he doesn't talk to me even though I apologized to him. I know what I did was wrong, but is there anything else I can do?
Does this friend like you as more than a friend?
2. Can I aks guy what he wants from me. We meet every now and then, we write to each other almost every day. sometimes I feel like he doesn't care about me, and other times he says he cares, misses me, and has said he loves me a few times.
Ok which dude is this? The friend you stood up? Or the dude you stood the friend up for? Or is this your female friend’s boyfriend?
He is good looking but not in my type.
My friend is very in love with him.
she would never tell him not to invite me because he is afraid that he will be offended
I talked to him and he admitted that he cared about me
So basically he has her wrapped around his finger that he could basically do whatever he wanted even if she didn’t like it cause he knows she will jump when he tells her too. That’s why he can say such things to her. He doesn’t care about her as much as she does him. He could cheat, she’d take him back.
It is the other dude that I stood The friend up for
O know it is complicated maybe I should Give them nicknames
So in response to what else can you do to make it up to your friend you stood up for another dude, nothing really. He likes you as a more than a friend. You just rejected him as far as his interest in you for someone else. Imagine how that feels if he stood you up cause he ran into another girl he had feelings for you, even though he knew you had feelings for him. What could he do to make that up to you? You told him basically you’re not my no.1, maybe not even my no.2 choice, maybe not even a choice of mine at all.
Yes nicknames would help. But if the dude you stood up has feelings for you, you basically crushed him. Even if he didn’t have feelings for you, as a friend you crushed him.
You are right. I f***ed up.
But I don't have feelings for him. I treated him like a friend nothing more.
I dont understand why he thought differently
So it is the end of a friendship
I was just about to elaborate on that. Yes you kind of fucked up by ditching him. I’d feel the same way he did. But at the same time that was partially on him for reacting this way knowing he was just your friend. But the sad thing is a lot of men befriend women they like because they’re hoping maybe one day, she will need me, come to a realization that I’ve been there all these years for her, that she will realize I’m a good man and want something w me. You left the ball in his court when you apologize, it’s up to him now to respond. He will stay mad for a while but there’s a good chance he will come back because sadly he’s simping on you. He likes you that much that he will overlook it and come back.
Mayebe the guy form cinemat lets called him Tom, he is doing it form pitty because i don't have a guy
I doubt it’s out of pity. Again he doesn’t call his girl his girlfriend. She’s so enamored by him that he could probably treat her like shit and she’s stay around. Does your friend have kids?
it would be strange that he also invites me to his house and we just sit together, the three of us, since I know that he is with her.
lol so you need to try to get out of your mind. I know that’s hard because obviously you’ve been a female all your life. But when men try to tell women what other men are thinking or what we want from a girl they don’t believe it. Could you describe yourself to me?
No. but he gave her the keys to the apartment, he introduced her to his parents, they practically live together. but he keeps telling her to find someone by the end of the year and calls her his sister. why does he do that if he probably cares about her?
Does he joke when he says it? Laughing? Or does he have a serious demeanor? If he’s laughing he’s probably just joking around, more than likely cares about her. Especially if she’s met his parents. There’s no way I’m giving a girl my house key unless I was really into her, knew that I could trust her. Because it’s been my experience that women like to snoop around, especially at a man’s house when it’s a new relationship. Even in his car.
What you want to know?
so girls are wrong when reading the signals
sometimes he jokes and then winks at me. but he also talks to her like that and doesn't laugh. but why is he telling her this, why can't he tell her directly that he wants to be with her
At the beginning of their relationship, he cheated on her and she knew about it... sometimes he also texts girls
Maybe he does want to be w her. Just joking w her. Some people have relationships like that. Does she stay w him? I think if he wasn’t serious about her she wouldn’t have let his parents, and she wouldn’t have a key to his place. For one because if he’s cheating she could show up anytime possibly finding out he’s a someone else. So maybe he does really like her.
Yes a lot of women don’t know what men want at all. They go to their girlfriends for advice which is most of the time completely wrong thing to do. Unless she goes to a friend who’s been married for a long time. Women tend to think that because they think certain ways men are supposed to think the same. And because we don’t think the same than it’s us men who are messed up mentally.
There’s a chance that maybe he’s changed. But like I said in the beginning doesn’t sound like he’s serious about her. I can’t say he’s not serious about her because he cheated on her. That’s a hard thing for women to understand. Women will say well if he was serious about her, had feelings for her he wouldn’t cheat. But to a man, I’m not trying to justify his cheating, I’m just saying a man can have sex w a lot of women but still love that one particular woman. Most times when a girl cheats I believe it’s more damaging because most women won’t sleep w a man unless they’re emotionally involved w him. Men don’t need emotions to be involved to fuck some random chick.
So what do you think men want in a partner?
at first it should be something that cannot be described. A guy must like a girl, but they must also have common topics to talk about, interests and passions.
And could you answer question 2
Because the third subject is more complicated
Here’s what most men want. Looks are usually important. Doesn’t mean he will always get that gorgeous woman that all men would sleep w. But it’s usually on the top of the list. Along w a girl who is feminine, isn’t masculine, argumentative. I’m not saying you don’t have disagreements here and there but a man doesn’t want to come home from work to a girl who’s always wants to argue. A girls education or financial status doesn’t make her more attractive. That’s why you see a lot of women who have their own house, their own care making a lot of money but they’re single. A man needs to feel needed. That usually means financially. I don’t mean as in a gold digger either. Also he needs to feel needed as in protecting her, his family. A lot of men want kids, marriage. A lot of men would like a girl who eats to be a stay at home wife. But many can’t say that because they’re labeled as misogynist. I don’t mean he’s forcing her to stay home. He wants a girl who wants to stay home. She needs to be his peace of mind. Know how to cook.
Question no. 2 is in reference to the dude you met after you ditched your friend? Yes you can ask him. But will he be honest? Don’t know. What’s his relationships been like? What about yours? You have kids? Ever been married?
Ok i get it
so I have a rather strange relationship with a guy. I don't know what he wants from me if it's just a momentary fun for him or something more. I feel like I'm just a temporary adventure. but I want to mark the opinion of someone from outside
Ok so tell me the situation.
I've been dating a guy for 6 months. At first we just wrote later he asked me out on a date and since then we have been writing to each other almost every day. We also meet whenever possible. at the beginning he said he didn't want to get involved and he couldn't give me what I wanted. later the situation changed to the extent that he told me several times that he loved me, missed me and cared about me. maybe as a form of manipulation. Contrary to appearances, our relationship is not based on pure physicality.
Ok. So where is he? You make it a sound as though you two live in different places.
We live not that far from each other.
It is more comlicated becausr he is in relationship. Thats why i want a honest answer
Is he only uses me for what he wants or i should confront him
Well honestly he may actually like you more than his current girlfriend. But at the same time remember what I said about men being able to have sex w women w out being emotionally involved. I know you said he misses you, loves you, etc, etc, but that may just be him playing the game. Meaning men know what to tell women when we want certain things. Like if I wanted to get a girl to spread her legs, she’s a little hesitant I might say something to make her feel special. Maybe throw out how beautiful of a bride she’d make, what a wonderful mother she’d be. How I feel like I can do anything w her by my side, etc. So I couldn’t really say which one it is. You do have sex w him yes? Now think about it this way? If he’s going this to his chick what if he ends up w you then meets someone else on the side? Is he the same age as you?
I’d talk to him. Let him know how you really feel. Because honestly this is going to fuck you up good if you co time w it. Sure you have feelings for him now but imagine if it goes on longer. It’s not fair to you, it’s not fair to his current girl. Your lost, you want to be loved. Just be honest.
He is older than me about 12 years.
We slept together but not that often. We speed time together or with ours friends.
Sholud l talk to him about this situation
I would if I was you. I mean because what are you going to do. Wait around like a lost puppy waiting for someone to love you. Because I hate saying this but you’re getting older, you’re going to lose that time to find someone who will commit to you. I say that because, not my opinion but as time goes on men tend to seek younger women for partners. So the longer you wait your chances become slimmer.
do you think he is just using me for his purpose
why is he acting like this?
Again that’s hard to say. Like I said he may genuinely like you. Especially if he’s tired of his girl. Maybe she’s let herself go. But at the same time he may still love her, he just like you for the sex. What do you want out of this?
What do you mean? Acting how?
I dont know really, i want to be in his life but I don't know if I want to be with him.
I want to know where I stand
Ok. This is what makes women complicated. It’s like when a girl says why does my ex not want to talk to me after I broke up w him. Or why did he move onto another girl after I told him I didn’t have feelings for him. You’re saying you’re not even sure if you want to be in his life but you want to know where you stand. Would it make a difference of being in his life if he said I only want you?
Would you be ok w being a side chick if that’s what he told you?
I think so. I just afraid that if I talk to him he cut me out
Ok. So you’re ok w the current situation of just being in limbo than actually finding out what’s going on?
No you are right
I dont want to live in that situation
Or he is lying to me or her
He could be lying to both of you. Have you been in a long term relationship before? I think you need to just speak your mind. Have some respect for yourself.
I will do it but I don't know where to start
Is 6 monts long term relationship?
I've never been in such a situation
Depends. If you spend a lot of time together during those 6 months as opposed to seeing each other once or twice a week I’d say yes it is. Just tell him you need to talk to him. Be honest w your feelings.
Thank you very much for your opinion and patience
I will talk to him and and I'll see if it's worth my time
Well I wish you the best. I’d like to know how things turn out if you’d like to share it w me after you talk to him
Yes of course
Thank you
Well, if you're single, as long as she is there, I wouldn't say it's suspicious- it sounds like they are just trying to include you.
It is nice but I dont want a pity
Ehh no. I guess it depends on all your relationships. Is he flirty with you wanting a little off the books romance apart from your friend? Are you wanting that?
Yeah he 100% tries to steel you from his friend
Maybe he wants a 3sum?
Yes.
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