Guys, Why would he act like he didn’t know me ?

[Indianabluesky]

Hey Curtis. I need a guy advice…. It this guy that I really liked but he hurted my feelings really bad. I haven’t spoken to him since March. I was getting no caller ID calls back to back but whenever I’ll answer they won’t say anything. In may I got this random tex say “my apologies about last time” but they never texted me back when I ask “who is this “ so I didn’t think much of it. In June I sent my very last text message just explaining how I felt and that was it I was doing good after that I wasn’t thinking of him at all. Until I got a Text last month in November saying it was him I was in denial because I didn’t believe it was him. 1 he left me. 2 his number wasn’t even block for him to be calling me from no caller Id and Texting me from fake numbers 3 I didn’t think he was that type of guy. October and November I was just getting this no caller Idcalls back to back after that conversation in November it stopped I haven’t heard anything. I was to scarred to text him so I texted him from another number like he did me and when I did he said he didn’t know who I was and that really hurted my feelings and I was just confused on why he act like he didn’t know who I was or maybe he really did forget about me and somebody else was just pretending to be him or something 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don't know Curtis but that really hurted my feelings

[Oliverlogan263]

Ouch, that sounds like a messed up situation. A few thoughts on why he might be acting that way:

- He could still have feelings for you but is scared to admit it since he hurt you before. Denying he knows who you are is an easy way to avoid dealing with his emotions.

- It's possible someone else was pranking you guys by pretending to be him. But for him to deny you too seems shady.

- He may feel guilty for how he treated you and rejecting you now is his shitty way of dealing with that guilt instead of apologizing properly.

- Could also be that he moved on and really doesn't care anymore, so denying you is his way of closing that chapter without confronting his past actions.

Either way, you don't deserve to be treated like that, especially after how much he hurt you before. I'd say try your best to move on from him for good - easier said than done, I know. Focus on yourself and spending time with other friends who don't mess with your feelings. You'll find someone better who won't play these games!

[strateguy632]

in that situation his girlfriend warned him no contact with gals and he committed so obey committed

[Avicenna]

Only he could possibly know

[Danny_dan92]

Didn’t want to be seen around you