OVERTHINKING SO BAD?

[notyourbabyy]

I am seeing someone for 3 months now and I am overthinking if he really likes me and want to be with me, but he told me he does.

He's just not sweet enough it's constant " how's your day" how's work" same questions every day.

I am getting bored & want consistency.
I opened about him giving me mixed signal but he said " actions speak louder than words"

Does some men are like this? Or is it hard for some men to communicate? I am planning to try and not see him this week if he ever ask, should I do that to make him miss me? 🥲

[teamvic]

Hmmm it could be he's just not very communicative about that and also may not be that good at keeping conversations?

Doesn't mean he doesn't like you but it does also seem he's not putting in the effort to show you how he feels about you either you know🤔

I dont know if not seeing him for a week will have any affect but if you ask me from a 3rd person view. You getting bored already is a cause for concern. Not saying anyone is in the wrong here but it's definitely not good either

[notyourbabyy]

I'd agree, other guys asked me for a date but obv I rejected them because I can't hurt someone's feeling behind their back.

[exitseven]

He told you how he feels. He talks to you every day. If you are bored with him maybe you should communicate it to him

[notyourbabyy]

I am thinking he's probably now showing more affection through text he doesn't even text me like " can't wait to see you again" I miss you" those type of message but when we're together it's good like.
It's actually my first time seeing someone so I don't know how it works I am so lover girl like I shower man with love & affection even we're just still in to talking stage😭

[exitseven]

Maybe he let's his actions do the talking.

[spartan55]

Wow, you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.

[notyourbabyy]

What do you mean by that? I've been with someone for 4 years & 6 years