What should I do with this guy?

[Anonymous]

So I have this guy that is in my team sport and he has a girlfriend that he has been with for 6 months I have a crush on him and I met him 4 months ago but he changed his approach to me about 2 months ago he followed me on IG 4 months ago and asked me for my SC 2 months ago and doesn’t follow anyone else on snap or Insta, he is constantly hanging around me when we are with the team, barging my shoulders, throwing my shoes and nobody else’s and helps me out with some things, showers me with social media attention and has even said I look “fancy” and wanted me to come out with him and his mates a month ago. I couldn’t go and hasn’t asked me for a while and he went quiet for 2 weeks with no contact and then started showering me with attention again and will sometimes only contact me and not his girlfriend. But when his girlfriend is around he doesn’t talk to me at all and snaps me every other day like crazy expect when she is over and one day she snapped me and I asked him who it was and he apologised for having his girlfriend snap me but wants me to meet her this weekend at our sporting event and still chats to me a lot. She has also requested to follow me and nobody else on the team that her boyfriend knows so why me. Does anyone know what’s going on with him?, what does his girlfriend want with me? , does he like me? And is there possibly something going on with his girlfriend that involves me?

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he definitely wants to get sexually involved with you. Maybe his girlfriend also wants to join in. I would just ask him "whats up" and ask him why he is following you so much and just ask him if he wants to be more than just friends. Is he sexually involved with his girlfriend?

[Asker]

I’m pretty sure he is but he doesn’t mention much about her and I only just knew about her name because I’m supposed to be meeting her this weekend I’m worried she might be trying to cause something between me and her

[Alex-Snow]

Well play it cool and try to be friendly and see where it goes. It is always better to take the high road. How old are those two?

[Asker]

They are both 19

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

He probably mentioned this girl on his team that he actually has fun with and she got jealous and wants to add you so that YOU know they are together.
Very juvenile business

[fantasticass]

Why waste your time on a guy that isn't yours. He has a girlfriend. End of story.

[spartan55]

Thank you... l thought I was the outlier here.

[Anonymous]

Find someone better. He is not worth your time.

[Billlewis]

Tell him that if the unwanted gropings and advances don't stop immediately, you'll file a restraining order against him.

[spartan55]

Geez really? HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, end of story.

[exitseven]

Maybe he is thinking threesome?

[SotiCoto]

Nothing. Break off contact.

[boobliker]

just tell him have sex and get over it job done

[jimmy2]

Home wrecker

[Asker]

Who me or him? bc i just wanna know why he is acting weird with me and nobody else