What do I do about this guy?

[Riko20]

So for context, this is my best friend's older cousin, y'know I really like him, he's handsome, sweet, he's a boxer, he's everything I want in a man but I'm scared I'm out of his league.

I'm scared to screw up, I want to be with him, I want to be his wife, but I'm terrified, what if I'm not good enough?

I want to be good enough, I want him to love me, but I don't want to be too late but im too scared to go for it.

[ohsheeT]

Well every time you get scared about something you can't just stop who cares if he says no at least you tried this is a learning experience for you there's no such thing as failure failure is success because you grow no matter what take a step into it tell him how much you like him what are the odds come on. Look at it like this look at it your as you're going to fail you know he probably has. Girls just like you that want to date him
. If he says no there's a reason for it it has nothing to do with you it has to do with him I'm sure you're absolutely beautiful but you have to try it and if he says no walk away because I guarantee that somebody else will cuz you opened up that door of what you want.

First thing you should want is to be more in tune and believe in yourself that should be the first thing you should want because if you don't do that that will show..

I'll tell you right now anything you want in life the first time you might not get it you have to work at it you have to work for it first you have to work on yourself and become more positive believe in yourself more that's all that counts if you believe in yourself you can have and do anything you want. love yourself.. . When you love yourself there's nothing that can bother you or embarrass you because at least you're stepping into it you're going for it you know that the odds are he might say no and that's okay because he'll remember you somewhere down the road believe in yourself

The question is what do I do about this guy that shouldn't be the question

She should be what am I going to do about myself to believe in myself to take that chance that step just because he says no it doesn't mean nothing at all it's not failure believe me. Is 100% success because you were bold enough to take that chance be proud of yourself

[spartan55]

If you're too scared to go for it then how would you ever handle an actual relationship?

[FreyaRed]

As long as he looks at you, you're good enough.

[HumbleDragon]

If you keep thinking that you’re out of his league. You still need to grow up. Thats little kid thinking

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues, never was.

[Anonymous]

just play it cool