Why do I get called pretty but I never get any attention from guys?

[Anonymous]

[Drago12587]

Im sorry, you are probably not pretty.. the thing is, girls overestimate themselves.. most girls think, that they are 9/10 or even 10/10 which mean the most beautiful girl in the universe.. it's because they hear lies from family members and mostly on social media.. ugly girl post pictures and they get 50 comments how beautiful she is. but in reality she is way under avarage.. i saw that million times... What really matters is your personality.. that what mens care the most.. if you can cook, clean, if you are loyal, you will surely get a good man.. if not, at least you can have sex :D..

[Asker]

No. I think im ugly but get called pretty A LOT.

[Asker]

no. i get called pretty by older women, neighbors, old guys, even guys i meet from online insisting im pretty. i don't think im pretty

[Drago12587]

Post your picture i can rate you.. no shaming, im extremely realistic.. if you are 2/10 i will tell you as well when you will be 9/10.. i have zero problem to admit that i was wrong and you are pretty and the issue is in personality. ( But from my perspective, personality is always more than look for mens) ..

[Asker]

beauty is in eye of the beholder. I have posted a pic on here and i got answers ranging from ugly to gorgeous.

[Leapfrog00]

It could be you're shy or timid. When someone usually sees a person who is not outgoing, they take it as that person doesn't want to be bothered.

I tell you what worked for me with girls, and I'm sure this will work for you, but talk about the weather, like say "it's a nice day out, or it's cold put here". It's small talk but it usually get w a conversation going, unless that person is shy too. That's the only time it doesn't work. I hope this helped!

[Shedzij567]

Aren't you that innocent pretty girly type? my friend was soo beautiful, but not like sexy, like too innocent looking, Alittle under developed for our age which was 18ish at the time. She literally could be naked and guys would not even look.

[Lisia]

That's weird, do you mean they don't even look at you?

[Asker]

Yea 95% of the time they make no eye contact. Sometimes if they do, it is very discreet

[Lisia]

Maybe they're intimidated?

[Asker]

No i dont think so.
Well i live in a city where its normal for people to not make eye contact

[Lisia]

Ahh well I guess people are more individualistic then. I wouldn't think too much of it.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve heard pretty people get less complements. Look if you mean random dudes you don’t know. Doesn’t mean you’re not pretty. It’s not the movies. A lot of people are simply living their lives. Many are in relationships or just doing their day to day business. Not paying attention.


You would be surprised how many people have no idea what’s going on around them.

[Fireguy17]

I do not know you, so I'm just guessing but you may not have a pleasant personality.
You might not be a nice person, that is the reason I avoid women, no matter how hot they are.
why would I want to be with someone that I do not enjoy being with?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that people may appreciate your appearance but may not express romantic interest for various reasons. Factors like personality, interests, or timing can also play a role in attracting attention. Building connections and being yourself can help in forming deeper connections.

[RedInnocent68]

Guys are actually easily intimidated, especially by pretty girls. I’m sure you were the least bit proactive, you’d have guys eating out of the palm of your hand, or whatever else you wanted them to do. 🤔😉

[jshm2]

Because you may be pretty, but you lack charm and personality.

Think of it like tea. Looks great, smells great, but tastes horrible.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe you’re not friendly looking or maybe you’re intimidating to them because you’re pretty, no way to know without a picture

[Asker]

can i send a pic to your privately?

[Likes2drive]

You can but I accidentally hit anonymous so let me fix it but if you’re not level 2 and up it won’t work

[Asker]

You live in long island. I live in nyc

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I’m probably only 30 miles from there

[pickles77]

Hard to say without knowing more about you but if you want to share more I can give you my honest opinion. Dm me if you want

[Asker]

your opinion is yours only. someone else might have a differing opinion

[pickles77]

Of course, but sometimes it’s good that you don’t get as much attention. If it’s the wrong kind of attention that is

[TiaNour]

Maybe the guys are to scared to get rejected if they try to talk to you

[Asker]

they don't even check me out

[TiaNour]

Would you say ur like a shy person?

[Asker]

shy has nothing to do with it. we are talking about on the streets in public

[TiaNour]

I mean it kinda does… cuz typically shy people don’t stand out in public and try to do things independently

[Asker]

if someone sees you're pretty, they are going to notice you. regardless if you are mute or shouting. Attractiveness makes you stand out when anyone lays eyes on you for the first time.

[TiaNour]

I guess that’s true. But it’s also hard for the people answering ur question, cuz we have no pic or anything we could use to help you

[Asker]

pics don't mean anything. because beauty is in eye of beholder.
my pic got banned on here cuz i posted it too much

[TiaNour]

Oof srry about that. I don't know girl I’m pretty bad at these type of question

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys think the juice is not worth the squeeze.

[jimmy2]

Just put on a sexy outfit like leggings. Then turn you butt over kinda bend over. It sit in a wdy thdt shows the pussy
You get attention but may not be the kind you want

[slatyb]

Called pretty by whom? Your relatives don't count.

[DarkWinterNights]

You’re unapproachable.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Maybe you’re not approachable I don't know

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Guys want naughty girls

[Anonymous]

Who calls you pretty?

[Anonymous]

It's because all of us men are pigs.

[war_daddy]

the people who call you pretty are liars

[Asker]

i don't think so because way too many people call me that. ugly girls don't get so many people telling them they're hot.

[war_daddy]

it's either you're ugly or sooooooo overwhelmingly hot guys are scared

[Asker]

i promise you im not overwhelmingly hot. i personally don't think im pretty. but i have a lot of people trying to force it down my throat that i am pretty.

[war_daddy]

sometimes people tell ugly people they're pretty so they feel better

[Asker]

that might be possible. but it has happened way too many times. Ugly people don't get called "pretty" a lot.

[war_daddy]

that IS weird

[Asker]

yea thats why i cringe whenever i hear it... my experiences just don't match up to what i am called. random old women on the street call me pretty, neighbors, old men, my parents, random dudes i meet online. young guys around my age never call me pretty. its usually some old person.

[Asker]

i was hoping to hear it less often. but it just keeps coming back. i really hate being called beautiful or pretty. cuz all i get is an ugly girl experience.

[war_daddy]

then maybe post a picture here and see if you're pretty or not

[Asker]

beauty is in eye of beholder. but even the people who think im pretty won't hit on me.

[Asker]

im not gonna post a pic cuz its a privacy issue

[war_daddy]

it's not a big deal. almost nobody even uses this site.

[Asker]

people have taken down my pic cuz its been up here too much

[war_daddy]

so you posted it before. what did people say?

[war_daddy]

not that you can really trust most guys on here to give you the honest truth

[Asker]

i get a range of answers from people calling me ugly to beautiful.

[war_daddy]

a range is not useful

[Asker]

beauty is in eye of beholder

[war_daddy]

yeah

[Asker]

But i rarely ever get hit on. every time im hit on, its usually by some slightly mentally ill man

[Asker]

he is usually mentally ill or there's something wrong with him.

[Asker]

normal guys don't even check me out.

[war_daddy]

lol mentally ill. that's unfortunate

[Asker]

over the past 5 years, i had maybe 3-4 guys stare at me in class.

[war_daddy]

in class? how old are you?

[Asker]

it began in my senior yr of college. till now im 28.

[war_daddy]

that's not a lot of guys

[Asker]

well... i don't think most girls get a lot of this attention any ways

[war_daddy]

hard to say

[Asker]

Not many average girls have guys crushing and chasing them in class unless they're very pretty.

[war_daddy]

I think if they have tinder or something they get more attention from guys who want sex and to use them.

[Asker]

any girl can get attention on tinder. but in real life such as at work or in the classroom? its much harder to come across. The plain average girl in class won't have 3-4 guys crushing on her.

[war_daddy]

true

[Asker]

but then again, someone who is average looking to you may be absolutely gorgeous to someone else. when i was in my senior yr of college, i had 2 boys chasing me and 3 other boys crushing on me. I been outta school for a long time now. Recently just went to take 2 classes, there was always this 1 guy who was after me.
but in real life on the streets, nobody checks me out. At bars, no guys approach me. Only mentally ill guys approach me.

[war_daddy]

lol mentally ill

[Asker]

guys usually avoid eye contact with me unless they are of my race. police officers only make eye contact with me because they are supposed to be vigilant. how sad my life is... at social events, i have no luck with guys. guys are always chasing someone else.

[war_daddy]

what is your race?

[Asker]

i just ignore anyone who call me pretty from now on. like dead silence after they say it or change the topic immediately

[Asker]

im Asian

[Tomisworthless]

who calls you pretty

[Luckycharms12]

Don't know never seen you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Try smiling

[ChicoFromThe305]

Are you shy?

[Asker]

yes i am

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's why, it's highly common with shy people, it's simply because you are hard to notice as a shy person.

[Asker]

pretty girls are never hard to notice.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Youd be surprised on how the shy ones are

[Asker]

i been shy, i've had guys stare at me while i was the mute girl i class

[ChicoFromThe305]

Kinda proves my point don't it? 😂

[Asker]

no it doesn't. it disproves your point

[ChicoFromThe305]

It shows you are attractive but only get a bit of male attention cause you are shy

[Asker]

you were the same guy who claims shy girls never get male attention.

maybe i don't get much male attention cuz im just not pretty enough

[ChicoFromThe305]

If you weren't pretty enough you wouldn't have guys staring at you in class, it shows your physical appearance isn't the problem

[Asker]

do you really think a guy will stop staring at a hot girl just cuz she is mute? if a guy finds something pleasing to look at, he will look regardless if she's mute or loud

[ChicoFromThe305]

I would agree with you if I didn't run into attractive women struggle in dating cause they are shy, I know it wasn't their look, I'm sure you look good, let that intrusive thought go anon

[Anonymous]

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