Should I text him after we hooked up last night?

[Anonymous]

This man has been actively pursuing me for the lst 6 weeks and we have gone on a few dates. I can tell he’s shy and also respectful. He finally spent the night and I was really happy about it. He hasn’t texted me since he left a few hours ago. And now I’m confused. Is he just too shy?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo I feel you, that's always an awkward situation. On one hand, dudes often wanna play it cool and not seem too eager ya feel me? But then leaving a girl hanging ain't cool either.

Honestly sis, I'd say go ahead and shoot him a text - something chill like "Hey, last night was fun :) " and see what's up. That way the ball's in his court to respond but you ain't waiting around stressin' either.

If he's been pursuing you heavy for weeks like you said, I doubt he's tryna ghost now. More likely he just shy or don't wanna come off desperate, boys be trippin like that sometimes smh.

A text from you shows you're feeling him too, might relax him enough to open up more. And if he hits you back cool, if not then F him 🤷🏽‍♂️ You deserve better than games.

But I got a good feeling he'll reciprocate! Nothing wrong with you making the first move sometimes, keeps 'em on their toes. Keep it breezy though sis, don't stress - you got this! Let me know what happens after you holla at your boo.