I attract shy guys. Is it me or is it them?

[thatgirljess]

Okay, so I guess I attract shy guys. And I mean super shy guys! I don't know why shy guys are attracted to me. Most of them I've never even talked to before. I see them around school but that's it. I like a guy with confidence and I want someone to approach me. Not me having to approach them cause they're too shy to come up to me. I always see other guys approach other girls. I don't get it. Why are some guys way too shy to approach me? What do I do about it?

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Well, I can't really say that I like them back cause I don't know them. I want to get to know them but when I'm around them they get too quiet and the conversation is just dead. I mostly do all the talking. And when I leave they always tell my my friends how much they like me. How do I get them to open up more? Talk to me more and be comfortable around me?

[CarelessWhisper]

The reason you're probably attractive to shy guys is because you're a cute girl with a nice friendly attitude. I wouldn't peg myself as a shy guy , but I am on the quiet side and can understand how it can be hard to have a conversation with people who aren't very talkative. As for getting them to open up, if they tell your friends they like you chances are they aren't all that shy or are starting to open up.

[probabilist]

Uh, so you approach shy guys but not confident guys? What's wrong with you approaching a confident guy?

[thatgirljess]

I approach both guys. Its just that I attract more shy guys than I do confident guys. And when a shy guys likes me my friends always push me to go approach them so I do but they're still shy around me.

[decentusername]

it's probably becuase you look lovely and not like a stuck up bitch maybe

harharhar

and I don't know, depends, do you like them back?

[decentusername]

i guess when you start to form more a friendship/relationship with them then they will open up more

[probabilist]

@update: let them grow up a few more years, and try to be laid back.