Do girls feel attraction for shy guys?

[Anonymous]

If he is good looking

Nope. I feel annoyed with them

Of course. No problem

Actually feel repulsed by shy guys

[EzraIsShy76028]

Well some do, but it's unfortunately not the majority.

Truth is, shyness in men is seen as weak. And women don't want weak men. They are also perceived as passive and insecure, and women also don't want that. And if you wanna take it even further, shyness is often considered a feminine trait.

Not saying I agree with all this. In fact I'm a shy guy myself (hmm, I just realized, appropriate username I have, username checks out, lol). But it's not considered desirable by most women, or even in the case of platonic male friends. Guys don't wanna hang out with guys they think are weak or pathetic.

[SteveSmith1985]

It's the same as guys being attracted to shy women. They aren't unattractive, they are just hard to know. Hard to see what a person is about when they're shy. That's the only disadvantage (but it can be significant, depending on the situation)

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not particularly to shyness itself. If he can break out of that shell and be funny and charming then that's more my speed. Not that shyness is bad by any stretch of the imagination, it's just not the trait that attracts me specifically.

[blackeagle007]

What if he’s weird and clingy 😆😆

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Clingy i can work with. I've had clingy partners in the past.

Weird... well, it depends on what his weird is, I suppose.

[blackeagle007]

lol jk. I’ve had clingy, annoyed the crap out of me

[PeachyPie93]

Only if he is good looking and not a zeek..
Since shy guys tend to be smart and fun once you get to know them.

[Zack-Bann]

Attraction is irrelevant if you can’t harness it into a meaningful connection
And if you’re shy you won’t be able to


So just sitting there with the affirmation that girls might be attracted to you won’t be enough


You need to break out of the shell and go make things happen for yourself

[IslaTheWitch]

I feel attraction to the mind as a whole, not to a particular trait...

[Asker]

Would you feel attraction for a guy if he can't even approach due to shyness?

[IslaTheWitch]

if we make it to the conversation somehow, then I can say if I'm attracted by his mind... if he can't or doesn't want to show it to me... I can't do much... I don't force people to talk to me :D

[Ladsin2]

Not generally no, because they want competent partners. One way of demonstrating competence is through confidence. A shy guy isn't confident and thus not that attractive. Maybe you could attract a woman that's more domineering or masculine, but even then I think they'd typically rather a more masculine and domineering man.

[CruelParadise]

tbh I’m not interested in the act he puts on or how carries himself nearly as much as the way of the vibe

[CruelParadise]

I don't know can’t really explain it

[Asker]

Isn't hi s actions related to his vibe?

[Hellraiser1984]

They only want extroverts. Shy guys get nothing.

[Anonymous]

I’m also shy so I tend to be more attracted to outgoing guys.

[DepthsofMe]

Yes, some guys that are shy are attractive but not because they are shy.

[Anonymous]

I think many will make an exception on him if if he's handsome and good looking

[denzooo9]

noo only if he matches my personalityy. looks are not too much of a concern🫶

[denzooo9]

yesss they’re always the sweetesttt

[blackeagle007]

I don’t because I like women 😎

[Anonymous]

As a shy guy, I presume they don't like us.