Friends with benefits tips?

[Unknown8264]

I have started being in a friends with benefits situation. We are both divorced and looking for satisfaction, he’s very sweet and nice. When we met the first time, it seemed like we knew each other and we just clicked. I told him I’m currently not in a relationship and I have no expectations of what will happen between us. He told if I ever met a guy then we can immediately end this. Now I feel a bit attracted to him because he’s sweet and we talk about deepest things. So how should I set boundaries?

[Anonymous]

lol you screwed this up right away. That’s why it’s never good to be an friends with benefits because someone always has an attraction to the other person. It’s usually the girl. I knew it before I read it because you said when you first met it was like you knew each other, you clicked. He on the other hand doesn’t feel that way that’s why he said he’s ok w stopping it immediately if you meet someone. In answer to your boundaries, well I’d be upfront w him about what you like or don’t like. He most likely will respect your boundaries otherwise he knows this situation won’t last long.

[spartan55]

Just enjoy it while it lasts, because it never does.

[QuietRunner]

it sounded like you had already set boundaries

just set it as sex

if you are willing to let it develop tell him that too

[riverrat3]

Be friends first, it can develope into something more, no matter how it goes, be friends first

[Jennz6]

Don’t, just stay friends