Men are only after one thing & its disgusting. Am I right lol?

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sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Sex period!

Another member on here (a guy) wrote his opinion on this subject.

I was always so baffled why a guy that was so good to him in every way would break up with her after she did everything to be loving to him. Then he cheats on her.

The guy's opinion is one I'll never forget. He said all men only want you for is sex. He has physical needs he has to have a lot of sex. It's a release for him. So it doesn't matter how wonderful you were to him in every way, it all boils down to him needing his physical release.
I find this to be true in my old age. The long mystery of why did he leave me has been solved!!
I guess always looking nice when we went on a date didn't matter to him at all. Just my love cave.

Ya know something, sometimes I wish I could just remove my love cave and carry it with me on a date. At the end of the date just cut to the chase, and hand him a box with my love cave in it, turn around and say have a good night.
Of coutI would have to have more than just one. I would keep my original vagina and organs for me. But I would 3D a few for him to have fun with - since that's all most guys want.

What a reltfrom all the game playing and broken hearts 💔

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I don't know how true it is but the book "Secrets about men every woman should know" by Dr. Barbara Angelis reveals a different perspective. I haven't finished it yet but it opened my eyes. I think we misinterpret a lot of things about men. While there are men who are only interested in one thing, we cannot generalise.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I've dated a few women who were gold diggers. So would it be fair to say that ALL women are gold diggers and they are all disgusting? "LOL" Overgeneralizing and developing such a negative attitude says something about who YOU are, not about what men are really like.

Most men want sex. I want sex. But I also want a relationship and I want more than just sex. I dated a woman for five months and waited patiently for her to be ready before we had sex, and I didn't pressure her. And we eventually had sex on a regular basis but we also had a respectful relationship. We had sex when we both wanted it and I never slipped her the sausage just because she had bent over.

If ALL of the guys around you just want to pull down your panties, then you need to determine what you are doing that only attracts this kind of guy. In the meanwhile, developing such a negative attitude will only push away any good guys who might be in your vicinity.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Maybe that is true, for many but some men do like to have a woman to share things with, go places with, and to be a companion when out socially. I had a very pretty woman companion from my office who was from Trinidad, a light skinned black woman, who I dearly loved spending time with. We never F$%^&#, and probably should have, but my experience to that point, was that having sex with a work associate always blows up in your face as it did with me several times in the past.

We did discuss sex and sexual things, but I was always hesitant to initiate anything for fear of have it become a problem in the work place, and as it turned out, I was right.

Other than under those circumstances, I, like most do look forward to having sex

1ash-Silver · Answer

Not all men. Sure a lot of men are about that thing. in my opinion messing around should be considered a criminal offense especially when the people involved are continuing this mess and taking it to other people. Men that are about that thing should be brought forward by women , call out culture since foolish men are doing the most damage hiding behind moral watchdogs.
I am disgusted as a young man , it is sad these men go from one girl to the next and that nothing appears to be stopping them.

Billlewis · Answer

When I was younger, I was only after one thing -- having intercourse with as many women as possible. Now, however, despite still only being after one thing, that one thing is now to provide as much pleasure, comfort and satisfaction for the female, and nothing else.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

I'd like to think that most men are after a bit more than sexy time. I think most of us thoroughly enjoy a deeper mental and physical connection with our significant others.
in reference to poor Sarah's situation, it all Hass to start with a DATE :-)

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, it's not disgusting and, no, that's NOT all men want!
I'd LOVE to have someone come around and just be a friend!! Spend SOME time with me! If it turns out to be a girl and she WANTS to fuck me, we'll talk!! `Til then, just playing cards, talking records/music or watching some t. v. together would be great!

Sonorous · Answer

Look, we men have testosterone okay. Without it, we wouldn't have motivation to compete for women. Which leads to people not fucking. Which leads to babies not poppin out. And then sooner or later, the human race would die out become extinct. So instead of calling this natural inclination disgusting & being weird about it, I say we simply frown upon how people go about doing it rather than the act itself. Sound good?

Radiate143 · Answer

I've never met one who wasn't. They exist apparently. Never met them. The ones who seem like it are just good liars.

loveslongnails · Answer

Oh, the one thing being "sex" you mean? It's only disgusting if:
a) you're doing it wrong and you're horrible at it (everyone is at some point! lol)
b) you're lying about your intent, motive or purpose, or
c) you're trying to do it without consent, in which case it's not merely disgusting but criminal

Nik1hil · Answer

WASH IT!.. Men are only after one thing & its disgusting. Yes, it is going to be disgusting if you don't wash it. Take a bath woman!.. Humans are stinky, smelly creatures.

molonski2 · Answer

Id say YES to the first bit and a big NO to the second bit.. certainly not disgusting , its great fun.

CindyRuns · Answer

The good ones aren't, but yes, a lot are !!!

NamerOfStars · Answer

Of course not- there's absolutely nothing disgusting about garlic bread.

JacobJordan · Answer

Lol yeah men are after one thing... a loving relationship with a wonderful woman some peace and quiet on the side. Don't think there is anything disgusting about that

strateguy632 · Answer

money is NOT disgusting. but if you refer to something else, also that thing is also not disgusting but pleasure. or you meant "disgusting that they only want one" not more?

Anonymous · Answer

Isn't that what makes women feel alive? The feeling that they are desired by men? That they can show themselves off to others proving their self worth by the man that is with them? That they can brag to other women about their man and what he succumbs to for her interest?

Staximus · Answer

Vaginas aren't disgusting if they are washed regularly

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Stop equating your teen boy experiences with the lives of the majority of adult men.

NathanDavis · Answer

I take souls... and no, they're not disgusting...

hahahmm · Answer

Better tell all the women dressing like sluts to attract men.

slatyb · Answer

If you think sex is disgusting maybe what you want is not a man.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

No, that's far from all we're after.. Plenty of us want love, companionship, a best friend, someb to protect, etc...

glennos89 · Answer

That used to be the case in the past but in current times woman are the ones who are taking over that role

AviatorTom · Answer

Elmo is too young to give Sarah anything 🤔 And what is the one thing women are after?

syncheart · Answer

For me it is a combination of sex and love. Companionship, Friendship, Caring for each others needs.

Slim57 · Answer

Have you ever seen a horny woman too though lol, they'll get what they want over hell or high water

clampfan101 · Answer

Not all men are like that. Elmo could have wanted to give her a… Date Dance Drink Dare Deal (lol) etc.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes, you are right about that

RohitDr · Answer

Not always but it's a natural phenomenon It gives immense pleasure to both parties if done willing fully

Anonymous · Answer

It's disgusting to spell "it's" wrong.

DarkLegacy · Answer

No you re not right, it is not disgusting

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Men and women like sex. It’s not disgusting

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Who wouldn’t want to bang a Slayer?

Minahh · Answer

True and those will only attract such women

Siri137 · Answer

And what would that be?

shortster · Answer

I am after two things

Al_Musafir · Answer

I'm after the Caliphate 🗿

Anonymous · Answer

No, you are not right.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

MORE A LESS

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

No...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It depends on the guy.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't think it's true about all men.

Mark987 · Answer

Depends the guys age

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Yeah, I’m after respect and true commitment…

eagle1951 · Answer

not sure what sex is lol

Anonymous · Answer

Is that a quote from That 70's Show?

CovetedDUCHESS · Answer

Not necessarily

Anonymous · Answer

All I wanted was a pepsi

jjj101010 · Answer

Snacks?

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

YES and no I guess

Aiden_111 · Answer

Not always

dolemite58 · Answer

🤣🤣🤣

dinojames22 · Answer

Is it food...

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