How to deal with jealousy from other men when their girl is interested in me?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayy man, dealing with jealous dudes can be tough sometimes when a girl you like is into you too. I've definitely been there before so I feel you. What usually works best is just tryna stay chill and not do anything that'll provoke them on purpose, ya know? Like if you're hanging with that girl and the other guy is around, don't be all over her or rub it in his face cause that'll just make the situation way worse. Try to be friendly to the jealous dude too, even if he's acting like a dick, so it doesn't seem like you're the one starting problems.

At the same time though, don't act like you don't like the girl just cause of him. You still gotta show her you're interested and make her laugh and have a good time when you're together. Maybe invite her to do something just you two, so you can connect without the other guy around. As long as she sees you really like her for who she is and not just for messing with the other guy, she's more likely to pick you in the end.

And if the jealous dude does get in your face about it, try to stay calm and walk away before it escalates to a fight. Fighting over a girl usually just makes you both look dumb in the end. Just keep being your cool self and she'll realize who really deserves her. jealous guys will always be jealous, so don't even sweat it too much as long as you're just doing your thing without causing trouble. Hope this helps man, let me know if any other issues come up!

[Tharithi]

I think they are irritated because u are not dating or leaving her alone. U are standing in the way without doing shit

[Asker]

I ignore the girls but the guys see that they like me and the guys start acting weird.

[Tharithi]

How do u look bro

[Asker]

I don't know but the way women look at me is off putting. But it's OK. I don't mind it. They are intense sometimes. But it is sweet I love them for the way they are.

[Asker]

As a man I feel ashamed to admit it. Most men hate that a man like me gets so much attention.

But I get so much love from women. Girls. Even young kids. I have some kind of magnetism for all of them.

I don't know why. But can I really know why? Can I ask? If i ask, men will be angry and jealous, and women will accuse me of being self centered and thinking I am special.

But I'm not. It's just they are drawn to me and I truly don't know why.

[Tharithi]

I asked how u look bro

[Asker]

I look like your monkey's uncle.

[Tharithi]

Lol they definitely do t give a damn about u

[Asker]

One cannot look upon my face as they will be scorched and burned by molten rays of unseen iron.

[On_cloud_wine]

Once I detached myself from anything and everyone, I became free…

[On_cloud_wine]

I can tell you what one guy did when a jealous guy who liked me a lot did. He became distant and mean and rude with me. So I avoided them both. Now the guy who likes me is in a so called situationship. I’m done with them both

[Asker]

I guess I have detached myself from caring about what other people think. And I suppose that isn't the problem I face anymore.

It's just awkward. And I hate how awkward it is.

I don't get attacked by those men anymore. When I was younger the guys would be jealous, but I was shy.

Once they realized I was shy with women they would begin to bully me in front of the girls.

But that doesn't happen anymore because I have so much confidence now.

Now it's more awkward. The guys don't treat me bad but they avoid me. They don't want to have a friendly conversation anymore. They don't want to see me talk to their girlfriend. They don't want to be around me at all.

Which I mean would be find but like, it's just awkward. And the girls see it all clearly I can tell.

The girls know the guys are jealous and the girls give me knowing looks. They know that I know as well.

Thats the worst part for me. I HATE the fact that I recognize their jealousy. It just feels so awkward and bad inside for me.

I would rather be ignorant of the fact.

I HATE to have any kind of situation where another person I'd feeling like I am "better" than them.

I'm not. I ain't shit. I'm not special. I don't ever want anyone to feel intimidated by me or anything like that.

That's what really bothers me now.

[On_cloud_wine]

I know that whenever I came into a room, the guy who liked me, his best friends would bow their heads down for some reason. I think it’s because they didn’t want to get caught checking me out bc they know how he is..

Their jealousy is not your concern. Jealousy is evil and I’m sorry they’re putting you in an uncomfortable position.

This awkwardness and badness you feel is probably why the guy was being intimidated starting being mean to me..

[On_cloud_wine]

Who was being intimidated *

[On_cloud_wine]

@oliverlogan263vhelp this man please

[On_cloud_wine]

@Oliverlogan263

[spartan55]

Yeah right...
keep dreamin.

[KrakenAttackin]

@spartan55. Any giga Chad can bang any woman if the timing is right. I have seen this with my own eyes and my Giga Chad friend.

[spartan55]

I know it happens, most who are Giga Chads don't feel the need to humble brag though.

[KrakenAttackin]

True dat

[Asker]

You don't even know who I am so what would be the point in bragging?

So basically, if a guy has female attention, he should never ask for help for anything.

It's not my fault bitches don't wanna fuck you.

[Asker]

But I get it. I'm used to men being jealous of me.

Can you see now why it sucks? Ciz every guy is either jealous and looking for a way to tear me down in front of the girls (which always backfires and makes himself look worse) OR I get the weirdos who see that girls like me who try to be my friend because they want good standing with the females and they want to use me to get to the girls.

Either way its very annoying. But I guess i can't complain.

[spartan55]

I could never be jealous of someone who has no concept of humility.

[Asker]

So it would be humility to ignore reality?

[spartan55]

No it would be humility to not tell anyone who listens how great you are... dude you 36-45 (supposedly) do I really need to explain this to you?

[Asker]

I never said I was great. That was you.

All I said was dudes get jealous and treat me like shit as a result.

You are the one who got jealous and did the same thing as every other fuckin dude.

[spartan55]

Dude, I'm not jealous of you, you're a douchebag. I could care less how much wool you pull. Those guys you think are jealous really just think you're an arrogant prick.

[Asker]

I have more confidence now. But back when I did not and the jealous guys saw after a while that I was shy with the girls, they would totally change their tune.

They would start attacking me. They would make jokes to anyone around about how I "couldn't get any pussy."

Of course I did but not because I had "game." The girls just didn't care that I was shy.

But the guys capitalized on it and tried to make themselves look better. They would try to bully me in any way they could.

But I'm the self absorbed one. I'm just telling you the truth and you're fucking mad about it.

[spartan55]

Not mad about anything, just pointing out you can be a better person without being a douche.

[Asker]

So what exactly makes me a douche? The fact that females like me?

The fact that I got bullied and attacked by men who saw that girls liked me?

The fact that other men get upset when I'm around because their girl keeps looking at me?

Where am I a douche? It's not my fucking fault.

You are indeed mad and jealous. You can't read what I'm saying you only read what you want to read.

Maybe you lack reading comprehension.

[spartan55]

Yeah, that must be it. I'm jealous and lack reading comprension. Interesting you project your lack of reading comprehension onto me. I said you are a douche because you lack humility. I will add lack of self awareness too since you seem to have no idea why anyone would be put off by your attitude.

[Asker]

What attitude? What specifically did I say that was "lacking humility" besides me acknowledging that females like me?

Quote me specifically and we will see who lacks reading comprehension.

[spartan55]

Have a nice day.

[Asker]

Oh you re read what I said and realized you cannot quote me and prove that I am as you say?

Good game. No rematch.

[spartan55]

More like I was done debating with a dipshit. I wouldn't quote you because people will think I'm retarded.

[Asker]

Gg no re

[KrakenAttackin]

Boys! If I have to stop this car?