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My coworker (also a friend and a lover, although we never defined our relationship so far)... and another coworker has a chat on Messenger last night. It was fun till the other coworker started talking about messing around with hot chicks... and "my" guy told him "why didn't you arrange something for me when I was there?"
And I went "wtf, dude"... then he talked about who is better at these things... I mean... in a way they both compared each other in front of me.
Which was even more shocking.
And I know the other one has crush on me too.
But anyway... I felt hurt. Why would he do that?
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Oh wow, I totally get why that would hurt! These guys were just being so disrespectful, comparing themselves right in front of you. Not cool at all.
I'm thinking in this "friendship" of yours, he seems to have forgotten the "friend" part and just sees you as something to mess around with until someone "better" comes along. Which is super lame and not how you deserve to be treated!
He clearly doesn't respect your feelings if he's chatting up other girls and talking about hookups so casually around you. Like does he think you wanna hear that? These dudes need to get it together.
I'd say it's time to put this guy in the "just friends" box, if even that. Let him know his behavior really bothered you and you need space to think about where you wanna take this, if anywhere. Don't let him string you along without commitment when he's out here acting single. You're too good for games, girl!
Focus on you for now. And keep those clowns at a distance till they learn how to act right and respect a girl!
You’re not his lover if you haven’t defined your relationship, ur either just talking or have some situationship going on, doesn’t matter tho since he doesn’t respect you clearly or seem to value your relationship much since he didn’t think it was a big deal to bring up wanting to get with other girls in front of you.
You are his fuck buddy. He doesn't respect you.