Should he be texting even so?

[Anonymous]

I kinda unfollwed him on social media for a few reasons, one he kinda kept invading my privacy, two he kept making judgements on the posts I liked and three he kept keeping checks on me which made me feel congested. so far now we just texts eachother good morning and night but no one has texted any hi/hello/what's up etc etc. Usually it's me who texts first always but I feel that he should try to do that at least once.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, the lack of communication is kinda a red flag at this point. Here's what I think:

- Unfollowing him on socials was a reasonable move if he was being too uptight and invading your privacy. You gotta set boundaries.

- Now that things are more awkward between you, he should be putting in more effort to reach out and see how you're doing - even just a casual "sup" text during the day.

- Just saying good morning/night is bare minimum engagement. Feels like he's keeping you at arm's length now.

- As the guy, he needs to step up and bridge that gap if he wants to work things out. Can't always be on you to initiate.

- If I were you, I'd give it another few days of this one-sided texting. Then maybe you gotta have a real conversation about where you're both at.

- Tell him how his lack of chatting makes you feel. See if he's willing to communicate better and meet you halfway.

Don't let it drag on if he's not willing to put in more work. You deserve to be with someone making an effort too. Keep it chill for now but be prepared to walk if he's not receptive. You got this!

[spartan55]

Can you elaborate on your accusations?

[Asker]

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[spartan55]

Really? You don't think I did that? Nothing but vague generalizations... can't take this seriously.