Do men play hard to get?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Some do. It’s such HORRIBLE advice. If you like someone. Approach…. If you play hard to get more times then not. The other person will move on.

Because a lot of people just genuinely aren’t interested. They aren’t psychics and know what you’re wanting. Even if they were frankly there is people who will show interest.

Figure. If someone likes you. If they genuinely want you. If you make a direct move. Ask the guy out and/or express your feelings. They will express the same. If they don’t. Assume he isn’t interested, is playing games, or maybe genuinely needs time to think it over. Let him know where he can find you. The balls in his court.

stratford · Accepted Answer

Lol, I'm too horny for that and it probably shows.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I did it a little when I was younger. I kind of came to realize games are dumb, haha, if you want someone, just go for them. Especially women, holy smokes, you turn your neck and they can get snatched up on you before you can make a move. I used to do the “wait a few days before calling her” the first time I’d get a girl’s number.

When I met my girlfriend I did that, to not seem over-eager and play myself. She had just moved to town and broken up with an ex back home. She told me later that she went back home and saw her ex when I didn’t call her, lmfao, so I almost fumbled the bag entirely. Technically was before my watch, so there’s no sting to it, but she could’ve just reconciled with the guy that weekend and I’d have been assed out.

Women are WAY too hot of a ticket to leave them unspoken for, for just about any amount of time, lmao. Every other guy she meets it’s gonna holler at her, and she’s bound to like one.

Blazingfang · Answer

If he's a "man" in the truest sense of the word, No.

He will show that he wants you if a chance is given to him.

Mind games are for children. And when i say this, i say it for woman too.

Don't be surprised if a guy takes a step back if a girl plays hard to get. He might play the same game, or like me, he will just move one.

Playing hard to get its like saying "chase after me since my time is more precious than yours".

No man or woman should have to put up with it. And its rare for men to behave like that, unless a girl did it first.

MrOracle · Answer

Most don't. If you are chasing a top 10% guy, though, they operate under a very different set of rules. They have such an abundance of women who want them that they can play games, pit girls against other girls, or whatever they want. Most don't commit to relationships anyway, they just run through women as they wish.

Guys out of the top 10% tend to be far more straightforward, because dating is already hard enough that most have no interest in playing games.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Once decided something, it will show. Including being distant or neglecting or lack of communication and more
Now he may neglect or be distant or so by accident, but I mean being distant is intended not doing so and willing the opposite like women.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Sometimes, but not usually. Most guys don't have enough options to make someone "work for it."

And if we're being honest, the vast majority of women don't actually command that kind of selection either, but people gon' people.

spartan55 · Answer

Have never and would never. No guy I have ever known has done it either. This is one of the myths that girls tell themselves when in reality the guy isn't interested.

TenderFantasy · Answer

Some do. They are just like women. Very picky and want either on the "same level" but more often than not, "higher" ones, especially white men.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, but men do play to get hard. Isn't it amazing how shuffling the words around can completely change the meaning of a sentence? 🤔

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Not usually. If they are it’s because they’re immature or they want to keep you or put you in the sleeper zone.

Anonymous · Answer

I think that's somethng women do more than men.

Unit1 · Answer

The men, that are not invisible to you might just be. Translation - The top 10% of men might just be.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I play get the f away from me because I'm dead inside

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Some do some don't. Personally I'm not, I am however playful and will tease/not kiss and tell

Jhonrembo36 · Answer

Some and some. Me personally I don’t like it.

admles · Answer

I'm sure there's a few out there that do, but that's largely a female bad habit.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Only guys who are players will play hard-to-get. Most men aren't into games.

believer11 · Answer

Sometimes they do, yes. Depends on their mood / personality.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No man is hard to get.

Sonorous · Answer

Not sure but I don't.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

We rather play get too hard. 🤔😬

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

i know the guy from the picture lol

billmunch · Answer

We usually play good to go.

Anonymous · Answer

No, but I'm unintentionally am.

Starrrboy · Answer

Only if she's not hot enough lol..

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Only really douchey guys

dudeinohio · Answer

No  We do not play such mind games.

DreamLife7 · Answer

No, He just doesn't like you.

fred_durst · Answer

yes they do , thanks to gender equality

serenalovesramen · Answer

most men don’t

Anonymous · Answer

No, that's a female thing.

Anonymous · Answer

they get hard to play

BadApple69 · Answer

Not me… I’m easy lol

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm easy

RavVid · Answer

I have.

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, I'm easy.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Some do.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yeah

Iron_Man · Answer

Some do

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Nope

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I am hard to get

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