I have become obsessed with someone due to sadness?

[Anonymous]

I know I'm doing it as a means of escapism. No one should live like I do.

I just don't know how to snap out of the obsession even while knowing why it's there.

[Monalisa77]

I got like this. I was way too involved. Tbh they didn't help matters by just ignoring me, if theyd told me the truth i wouldn't have been left wondering what if.

I even bumped into them twice but it wasn't on purpose, genuinely by accident which kept making me think there was a reason for me bumping into them. But when i tried to it never happened. So i started letting go when FB stopped us from seeing things we werent allowed to.

Tbh if it wasn't for the next one not sure how id have moved past it. This new one isn't on social media which is probably why i can't get into it too much and id not seen him in months anyway. Its now just a thing in my head that im struggling to move past from and forget what actually happened. The thought that i could see them again is holding me back

I know why i get like this and im desperately trying to change. Im focussing on studies and making friends /gaining confidence

[Demonatrix]

You need to talk to a counsellor about the situation. I would also suggest you join a club of some kind to help distract you and have other people around you.

[Gent207-2]

Redirect your energies to helping others through volunteering

[Asker]

Can I message you?

[Gent207-2]

Sure

[Asker]

I just messaged you. Thanks

[Anonymous]

Obsessed with a guy?