My boyfriend won’t spend time with me anymore, he is always watching one piece he says it’s because we’ve been together for a year already?

[Anonymous]

[lightbulb27]

one piece?

not sure what's goign on. he shouldn't be bored but enjoy being with you. something is up, doesn't mean it's you.

there's nothing wrong with having time to self and hang with guys and work. but he should want to be with you...

[HelpfulWoman]

one piece is a anime, recently netflix has released a live action season

[lightbulb27]

@HelpfulWoman if he wants to stare at a screen with make believe characters than be with you... it's a problem. guys do need time to decompress. as long as you are easy going at times, he should be ok. if you are demanding and stressful, maybe he needs an escape.
good luck!

[aceleon]

dude, there is a story that happens in that screen, always a new adventure and many characters to get to know and sometime emphasize, what does his girlfriend has? by the year that passed i'm certain he knews enough about her and i really don't think she can cause enough mental stimuly that animes or movies causes, just one ordinary and generally uninteresting person, you can't blame anyone for finding fiction more interesting than actual people.

[HelpfulWoman]

@aceleon - that doesn't mean you don't spend time with them. they could literally spend time watching something together. its pretty basic common sense

[aceleon]

@HelpfulWoman where can we know that they like same kind of movies or such tthings?

[lightbulb27]

@aceleon man that's sad.

[HelpfulWoman]

@aceleon there's this thing called compromise. there's millions of movies, there WILL be one they can watch and enjoy together. Your lack of care to a future partner is no excuse for it.

[aceleon]

feeling is mutual.

[aceleon]

@HelpfulWoman when did this became about me and my non existent future partner and my treatment towards them? i already know that i am not cut out for that cloth so i don't make relationships, because even if i will mostly be social and all i will eventually want my space and for a fact i can't enjoy watching things to the fullest when with other people, when i am with others i am in socializing mode and can't concentrate on the things we watch i am more interested in talking about it i can only fully enjoy them when i am alone.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man that's rough. A year is a long time to be together but that's no excuse for him to ignore you like that. If he’s always watching anime instead of hanging out, that's kinda lame of him. You deserve to have your guy listen and give you attention too, not just ditch you for some show. Maybe you should tell him straight up how it makes you feel when he blows you off. If he still doesn't change, then he might not be that good of a boyfriend. Don't settle for someone who doesn't appreciate you!

[sheikalana]

'because we’ve been together for a year already' this is such BS. Me and my husband have been together for a while and we always look forward to spend time together. My favorite part of the day is when he comes home from work and we have lunch together. We also miss each other when we're away from each other. I don't know what your boyfriend is talking about honestly.

[HelpfulWoman]

-take a hint, he's not going to get any better with his attitude being like that!

[aceleon]

sorry sis but compared to fictional worlds real people tend to be not as interesting, what will you do if he showes attention to you? sitthere and talk, about what? do you have common interests? if not sorry but it is a given he is bored with you after a year, it doesn't matter how much you love someone, if youdon't share interests with them you won't want to spent time with them or be interested and fall away, even if they are your father, this will happen.

[slatyb]

I've been with my partner for ten. You need a new boyfriend.

[nawtee_me]

Time to leave him. If he doesn’t spend time with you because you two have been together for a year what will happen when you are together for two or five years? Leave him now…

[CozyCoffin]

Give him an ultimatum. It doesn't sound very healthy for the relationship.

[jahaims]

He is immature and is in a relationship for the wrong reasons

[Anonymous]

That's a red flag in my opinion, and he sounds like a lazy bum.

[Vikkrram]

So strange reasoon

[Asker]

Yeah.. the only time he spends time with me is before we go to sleep and then after 5 minutes, he’s asleep!

[Vikkrram]

Is he not interested in you right now or he is going with some difficulties which he didn't want to share anything like that.. then might be he is behaving like this

[Asker]

Im trying to obtain a visa for him, he’s from another country so he can stay in my country. I’m just a little worried that’s all about his actions. He could be stressed about that, as he mentioned stuff about it last night.

[Vikkrram]

Ok you can ask him that's great

[jjj101010]

Does he want to split up?