Why does my boyfriend only spend time with me when someone else is around?

[Teedragonborn]

Its sort of healousy for me.. but he only soends emtime with me when someone else is here (ie: another girk or a guy.. we have been together for 3 years... and it sucks he brought over his female best friend (she's new) and i let them eat dinner together since she comes over every Saturday, but they have lively conversation however with me i know nothing about him and we have a 3 month old together for context. But whenever we eat dinner he doesn't talk to me like he does with her... usually he ignores me all weekend and when we eat he's just silent and eats as fast as he can... he also won't go to bed with me every night.. like i wake up alone and he's in the other bedroom i guess watching porn.. I don't know. What the hell is his problem?

[b_lova]

It sounds like he either doesn't enjoy your company or no longer likes you.

I would call out his behavior like you did here and ask him why he has chosen to distance himself from you emotionally. We can only guess what the issues are. He knows for sure.

[Teedragonborn]

He insists there's nothing wrong. Like u got jealous of his female friend but he swears he would never cheat.. blah blah blah or he will insist ask what i want to do later only after getting on him about not hanging with me.

[b_lova]

Sometimes it takes 3 or 4 years to meet the real person you are dating. This maybe him or he maybe going through something at the moment and not telling you about it. He maybe insisting nothing is wrong between the two of you but not realizing you are asking if anything is wrong in general. Ask if anything is wrong in general and if nothing ask why he is treating you as he is.

If he insists there are no problems and doesn't change how he is treating you then you have a decision to make.

Since we can't expect people to change into what we want, you have to ask yourself if you want to spend the rest of your life with this person or move on and find someone else leveraging this experience as you start fresh, looking for someone who doesn't treat you like you have stopped existing.

[Firestar01]

I have no idea, I just came to say that I love your profile pic. Best on GaG, hands down!

[Teedragonborn]

You may get MHO just for this haha

[impalabill77]

Is the others, males

[Teedragonborn]

Eh a mix, right now it's a female but both mainly..

[jahaims]

Ask him