An ugly guy who himself is very fat calls me fat?

[Anonymous]

I am 5'2 65kgs girl, and i know i should loose around 5 to 7 kgs. But that doesn't make me a super fat person. i do have amazing skin and hair and clothes like anyone else... but this friend of mine keeps saying i am ugly and fat etc. it ruins my whole day. How should i confront him? (ik guys like to say all of that to their guy friends and its normal for them even tho it shouldn't be)

also i never body shamed him or said he is ugly or short or anything, but saying all of that as a comeback isn't an option i wanna consider.

[_Maya_]

Don't stoop to his level. That makes you no better than him. You say you want to lose some weight. Do that and show him how you worked hard and bettered yourself. That's the ultimate revenge. The guy that said this to you is likely insecure about his own body and this is his way of making himself feel better. It is really immature. Don't be the same way. That achieves nothing. I would ignore it. If he thinks it bothers you then he will keep doing it. If you ignore and pretend it doesn't bother you then it will get old. Again just don't stoop to his level and be like him. In the end it gets you nowhere.

[EmmaMary]

Anonymous Blue Account.

"I am 5'2 65kgs girl"... So are you Male or Female?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[strateguy632]

ignore him. if true, imagine he said your true hair color. no problem.

tell yourself you aren't ugly, he just tried to hurt your feelings by lies, but you won't let him.

if he said it in response to you talking about being single... that is his explanation not an insult.

[CozyCoffin]

If it bothers you that much, drop him as a friend and tell him to hit the road.

[RebelinSteel]

You are a girl? As in a girl girl or you just consider yourself one? I thought on here pink for girls blue for guys?

[PeachyPie93]

Ditch him. Never let people disrespect you.

[RebelisAlwaysHere]

they dont like you