Guys what makes you not trust a girl you started dating?

[Anonymous]

Guys what makes you not trust a girl you started dating and decide you aren’t ready for a relationship because you don’t trust her and she’s sneaky? A guy wouldn’t leave me alone, chased me for months, then when we became official, literally 3 days later. He says he doesn’t trust me, that he feels I’m sneaky. Then says he needs space and that I am not the problem because he is very attracted to me but he doesn’t feel ready and that he isn’t shit.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a cop out. Chances are he met someone else or there was someone else he was pursuing that show an interest back that he was after first. The only thing that would make me think she’s not trustworthy is if she was really possessive, guarded of her phone. Maybe I caught her in a lie that she told me that she had forgotten. I’d have to really be w you to make a better assessment of what he may have seen or noticed to make him feel that way. Unless like I said he met someone else or there was always someone else. Did he try to have sex w you right away?

[Todd9612]

Did this by any chance happen after you slept with him?

[jahaims]

Depends on her past and if her actions match her words

[Zestyassmf1997]

Flakiness. Talking about her exes a lot.