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We had sex. The first thing he texted "When's the 2nd roundš" , I got pissed I told him "His attitude disappointing, I'm no longer interested"
He said "He didn't mean to be disrespectful, he apologize" He's been asking me out for dinner for 20 days. Should I give him chance?
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So how long have you known him? I mean just reading it I would think the same. I donāt know if Iād say the same thing to you, but it sounds like you were easy. So I can understand why heās saying that. Youāre just sex to him. If I was you Iād move on. I mean yes men say dumb shit like that all the time, but to me this seems purely sexual. Heās just trying to make up for it so he can get laid again. Maybe Iām wrong, maybe he really likes you. But again how long have you known him? How fast did you give it up?
It was fast but we went with flow together 50/50 and it just happened. He asked me "Did you like" I said yes. He also said "I wanna make you cum too" during sex.
So yes, even though it was easy, that message "sounded disappointing" that's only what I told him. He understood that "He didn't mean to ne disrespectful" He's been texting me for dinner plans, good morning messages etc. now so I'm not sure
And how long have you known him?
For a few weeks. I already said "It was fast/easy"
Ok so yes Iād look at you the same way he initially seen you. Whenās round number two. A lot of times men donāt take women like that serious.
Do you understand question? I ALREADY know that text 1000% was unserious. And I told him. My question was about his afterwards behavior, he's been apologizing, asking me out dinner, good morning texts? should I give him chance or not
No Iād move on. Maybe Iām wrong or could workout but in situations like that when a girl gives it up that easy, he wonders, thinks how many other dudes has she been easy w
. Ok
You can try it if you want. Abstain from sex for however long, see if he continues to date you or starts to flake out.
Why sex is "giving up" for women? š Sex isn't an act when 2 people desired each other? Women get pleasure too.
I understand but I was already moved on and ghosted his texts. He kept asking for dinner, good morning texs etc. while I wasn't answering his texts. Otherwise I wouldn't have think again
Because to a man, it should be the same to a woman, that should be one of the most special things she can give him. So when itās just handed out like that itās no longer really valuable. I mean if youāre handing it out and other women are just handing it out the specialness isnāt as special as it would have been if they developed something on a more meaningful level. The desire you speak of, toward him, is that a desire that you like him, heās interesting, maybe handsome, someone you could see yourself w years from now?
I think sex was good for him and also me. First sex we we're already communicating he asked me how I like? He wants to make me cum too? Etc. I think we have some chemistry. He's good looking at some level but I'm not sure if he really wants something or he's manipulating me. I'm sceptical about men
Give it a try maybe itāll workout. Take the time to get to know him more rather than having sex. See if he continues to ask you out.
I don't respond him. He just texted again for dinner he says "I reached out the other morning to go to dinner and you didnāt respond"
Also he sees my EVERY Instagram story in first 1minute. He literally always the first one
It's a bit of a hasty reply for sure, but he essentially just replied with "I can't wait till we do it again!" That's like, quite a compliment AND a flirt. He should dump you in my opinion, you seem like trouble.
Why am I trouble?
You took a common compliment and flirt from almost every guy I know, and almost dumped a guy over that. 90% of people either don't care about OR are complimented by it. You're too obsessed with how someone texts, which is a red flag and means that you're likely a control freak. In general that tends to ruin relationships, so if I was that guy's friend I would tell him to stay away from you. You're fortunate he is so into you.
Why you think he is so into me?
The sex is clearly one aspect, for which he tried to compliment you, as for the others I simply do not have enough information.
He was asking when y'all were gonna fuck again, I don't see why you got mad lol
Men usually say" I had great time with you thank you I'd love to take you out again etc"..."When's 2nd round" I only said "it was disappointing"
He said "He didn't mean to be disrespectful, he apologize"
He been texting me for dinner plans, good morning messages etc. now so I'm not sure
Genuinely asking, what did you expect? What was your end game here?
Cause from your reaction it seems you were expecting something else
We went to date and we slept together. What I expected? "I had great time I'd look forward to see you again" etc. "When's 2nd round" is very very douchey after morning text.
But my question is not text. Text is disrespectful yes. My question: I definitelly don't respond him and he kept apologizing, texting me for "dinner plans", good morning texts etc. Should I give him chance
I don't know, it's a choice for you to make but personally I believe it's all ruined, you spread your legs before commitment, that only tells someone "why commit? Free pussy" now your pussy is all you got that man thinking about and who knows what type of lies or manipulation he might lead you too just to get it again, the chance is only for you to give but I'd say just be careful to not be used for your body cause it surely seems like you've given too much in such little time with no commitment that this might have sabotaged the whole thing, hopefully he cares about you and wants to give you more than just dick.
Yes that's my concern.
I think sex was good. Any man will use manipulation to get it again
That is false, I've personally never taken advantage of women in any way but I think your situation can go either way and the only thing you are putting on the line is time you don't get back so how you spend that time, is always up to you.
I still don't reply him. He asked dinner again "Would you want to do X restaurant 7pm?" I didn't answer. He texted again he said "He texts me dinner plans but I don't respond"
Also he see my EVERY Instagram stories literally in first 1minute. He never misses he's always the first one I think he open notifications or smth
Well I don't know what to tell you lol
I'd say if you give him another chance you can easily test his realness by ending that night without sexual intercourse, if he tries you tell him you don't want to do that anymore without commitment, see how he reacts, he either gets angry or he comprehends it and you'll also know what his true intentions are, he will commit if that's what he wanted from the beginning, if he only wants sex then it's only logical to assume he never wanted to commit in the first place.
I understand but I don't want to look like I want him commit to me after first sex. That feels like I want relationship with him and trap him and look desperate?
Looking desperate is a concern many worry about but has no importance at all, you are a woman that wants commitment, you dated seeking for commitment and you want commitment, seems like a totally normal human craving to me, the only thing is that now you might be seen even more ridiculous because you already had sex with him so looking for commitment after a casual fling might seem deceitful and a red flag itself, if you aren't looking for commitment then dating is pointless, it seems to me like neither of y'all know what y'all want but decided to go on a date.