Is it bad I told him I dont like him talking about other girls he's talked to?

[Anonymous]

we have been talking for 2 months are long distance and we ft every day. We met through a dating app and have met once and it was perfect. yesterday he was like talking about some girl he matched with previously on the dating app. He's talked about girls he's matched with before and it makes me uncomfy so yesterday when he went on about some random girl in the same city he's in right now. It made me jealous and stressed me out. i told him i dont like when you tell me about girls you matched with. I dont think I want to know. And then after that he was like I'm so sorry and then his personality completely changed. He was like oh I'm so sorry about earlier if I was mean to you about this and that. I told him he wasn't mean and then he went quiet. Today I messaged him to not filter himself around me and that I really like him and care about him. He replied something like thank you hearted my message but later in the day was like he said he's sorry he's feeling off today. What happened?

[iFarted]

Your feelings are valid, and it's good that you communicated that you don't like hearing about his talking about other girls. He probably felt bad and dumb for talking about other girls hence the reason he said he's feeling off. Keep doing on doing your thing with being open and honest about your feelings. Communication is key.

[Asker]

Now I'm overthinking. So he has this bigg test to take was supposed to end this week. He ends up not taking the test and pushing it back. So this weekend he goes home where his parents live which is like 1.5 hours away. He was talking about how he hates home a lot and then he was talking about how he matched with some girl who went to school there before I matched with him. And how she would talk about all the things he knew and how crazy that was that someone has experienced them too. And then I was like um what was the point of this story something like that and then he's like oh well that didn't work out and stuff. It was awk it felt like he was giving the positives on her and then at that point I told him that I didn't like him talking about other girls. And then it got me thinking like now what if he went home to go on a date with this girl he matched with before me. What if that's why he's being off. He could've come to see me but I'm 5 hours from him. I'm too far. There's a girl 1.5 hours away from him. I don't know I'm overthinking right. He didn't go on a date with her this weekend right.

[iFarted]

I feel like you're better off dating someone local...

[Asker]

i know but there truly isn't anyone local. :( I'm from a really small town. He is too, but he's closer to a big city than I am.

[Asker]

he has two houses one of them is in the big city. So he was there when we matched. We met in the middle he drove like an hour longer.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Eh…it would be worse for you to not express yourself honestly.

[Anonymous]

What are your intentions of talking to one another? After two months, I’d say you two should be pretty serious and ready for the next step. You’re invested at this point, so make sure it’s worth it.

[boggboss]

He is not sure what to say to your or not I guess

[Asker]

oh and the im feeling off message he deleted but i saw the message before he deleted it.

[Asker]

weird right

[boggboss]

Yeah its prettt weird