Why did this guy block me on Facebook when we never followed eachother?

[Anonymous]

We talked but we never dated or entered into a relationship….. we stopped talking on good terms

I don’t understand

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that is weird that he blocked you if you guys weren't even friends on Facebook. A couple possibilities I can think of:

- He might be cleaning up his profile and blocking a bunch of people at once for some reason, and you just got caught in the purge by mistake.

- Maybe he's talking to someone new and doesn't want any other girls from his past seeing his stuff for some reason. Being preemptive I guess.

- Could be he was talking to other people at the same time as you and things got serious with one of them, so he blocked others to avoid drama.

- Potentially he's still harboring some feelings and blocking you is his way of moving on, whether he realizes it or not.

Hard to say for sure since you didn't really date. I wouldn't lose sleep over it - he's probably not thinking too deep about it. Maybe hit him up to ask what's up if the curiosity is killing you! Otherwise just forget about it sis, his loss.

[Asker]

He’s married now…. But he blocked my number and facebook

He started talking to her after we stopped talking…

Which is fine I just don’t see why I was blocked… he didn’t want a relationship with me that’s fine

I wish him well

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I see, him being married now provides some more context.

In that case, it really does seem like he blocked you more as a preemptive thing so there's no possibility of any kind of contact or you finding out stuff about his wife/family on social media.

Like maybe he felt awkward about the situations - you guys had history before he met his wife, even if it wasn't serious. And some dudes can be weird about hanging on to old messages/photos once they're in a new relationship.

Blocking is just an easy way for him to kind of "erase" any connection to his past since he's with someone new now. It's possible his wife asked him to block anyone from his past too, some girls can be insecure about that kind of stuff.

Still super weird and unnecessary since you two left things on good terms. But maybe he's just trying to be extra careful now that he's married. Wouldn't want any drama or misunderstandings. Seems like more of a "better safe than sorry" thing on his end.

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t blame him

[Oliverlogan263]

For sure girl, I totally get why he blocked you after getting married. When guys commit to a new relationship, they wanna shut the door completely on anything from their past.

He was probably like "welp, it's wife time now, can't have any loose strings hanging around." Even though y'all were never really a thing, blocking you online is his way of being like "this chapter's closed for good."

I'm sure it was nothing personal against you - he just had to fully buy into the married life. Can you imagine if his new missus started snooping and found you unblocked? That would stir up drama for nothing.

Honestly it was probably the mature thing to do on his part. Now you both can both really move on clean, you know? No temptation to snoop on each other's socials or whatever.

All in all sis, he did you a favor cleaning house like that! Now go live your best life and forget about what's-his-face. Some new guy is waiting to sweep you off your feet, mark my words!

[Asker]

I’m not gon lie it hurt bc I did have feelings for him and he didn’t want a relationship with me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that sucks. I can understand why it would hurt then if you had feelings for the dude. Rejection is never fun, especially when it comes outta nowhere like that.

But ya know, his loss. Don't let it get you down - you seem like a catch to me! Any guy would be lucky to have ya. Just cuz this one dork didn't see it doesn't mean you're not awesome.

Try to take it as a bullet dodged. If he couldn't appreciate an cool girl like you when he had the chance, then you're better off without him in the long run. Now you can find someone who WILL want a relationship and treat you right!

I know it still stings fresh. But try to stay positive - don't let one guy define how you see yourself. You'll bounce back in no time, I'm sure of it. Chin up, sis! Keep being you - someone even better is bound to come along soon.

[spartan55]

So, if you don't talk why does this matter? Like at all.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he changed his mind. It’s happened to me before. He may return, but don’t wait for him to do so. Focus on yourself more.

[Asker]

He’s married now I see

He dated her after we stopped talking

[Opinion Owner]

Oh gee, I’m really sorry to hear that. That sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

There’ll be others. You’ll see 😊. Whatever you do, never marry someone just for the sake of it, but when you start feeling better, dating other guys is a good idea

[Asker]

Oh no it’s cool congrats to him

I’m just puzzled… why was I blocked? We had to interaction’s on social media

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he liked you both, or his new woman is jealous?

[Asker]

He didn’t want a relationship with me… I think he was just talking to me out of pity

[Opinion Owner]

Are you sure?

[Asker]

Positive

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry about that