My boyfriend blocked me on facebook?

Question

So, Tuesday, my boyfriend and I got into a huge argument and he ended up breaking up with me (we have been together for 2 years and 3 months) then he blocked me on whatsapp (thats where we talk) and on facebook. Later on he texted me and said he wanted to talk, so we talked and ended up making up. Today, he didn't text me all day or unblock me from anything. So at around 3 (he gets up for 7 at work, so he had plenty of time) I asked him why I was still blocked? And he said "I'm waiting for us to be ok" and I said "really? not texting me or talking to me and keeping me blocked everywhere is gonna make us ok?" and then he replied with ok i unblocked you and I said "it's pretty sad I had to tell you and you couldn't do it out of yourself" but, he still hasn't added me back on facebook. I let him know it bothers me, but he hasn't. And I am not going to add him because I am not the one who deleted him. Anyway. He has my mom as a friend on facebook and I went on from her account and he still has his relationship status as "in a relationship" and he still has pics up that he posted of me of his wcw. So? Should I be upset? Or?

Updates:

+1 y

Oh, and also deleted me off snapchat. But I haven't mentioned anything about that.

Answer 1

ScorpioMoonChick

Xper 6

No, don't be upset. Also, I wouldn't push him to do anything, cause that will only make things worse.

Social Media isn't as important as your real life relationship, so I think that you're focusing on the wrong things. If you want your relationship to heal, you need to:
1. Tune in to what he's saying, and not read too much into what he says

2. Turn off the Bullshit Machine in your head (translation: never jump to conclusions and trust him.)

3. Breathe. Meditate. And remain present. (To remain present, ask yourself how a situation feels.)

Best Wishes!

Answer 2

lumos | 974 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

This is just a mess. He's clearly not ok yet with being together with you again and would probably need more time to cool off.

Answer 3

serious | 3.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Well, that is really strange. I don't know why he wouldn't unblock you even though you both seem to have made it up to one another. I don't why he isn't adding you back either and you telling him to do that is very strange indeed.

Of course you have every right to be upset.

serious

+1 y
Thanks for the MHO

Answer 4

serious

Thanks for the MHO

Answer 5

ObscuredBeyond | 236 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

That one's burned. Move on.

Asker

+1 y
then why would he have wanted to talk and get together again? Its so confusing.
ObscuredBeyond

+1 y
He felt guilty about shutting you out so suddenly and completely. Yet, you got pushy, and that made him think maybe he was right.
Asker

+1 y
Mm, just an hour ago he told me he was sorry and he wanted us to be ok again. So thats not right.

Answer 6

Asker

then why would he have wanted to talk and get together again? Its so confusing.

Answer 7

ObscuredBeyond

He felt guilty about shutting you out so suddenly and completely. Yet, you got pushy, and that made him think maybe he was right.

Answer 8

Asker

Mm, just an hour ago he told me he was sorry and he wanted us to be ok again. So thats not right.

My boyfriend blocked me on facebook?

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