Been married 15 years. Together for 20. Have two amazing children, a lovely home, my husband runs a successful business, he’s a lovely husband and father, friend and a well established member of the community with lots of respect.
behind closed doors I have always since the day of ever being with him, found him talking to other woman. It’s been random occasionally bits it’s usually the same 5. Yes the same five woman for all these years. Sadly I have became used to it, and it doesn’t seem such a big deal. He promises he would never physically cheat and states for the most past these woman mean nothing to him in regards to me, but yet he still keeps them around even after an argument over them speaking (arguments happened more over it during the past) one lives the other side of the country, he says he’s never met her and I believe him. The other we both met through a club, I was friendly with her too but it fizzled out and they remained friends. Another is his friends wife, they are always on and off though he maintains they are just friends. And another is a girl he’s known since high school, that he was close to back then.
im just curious, what makes a man a serial emotional cheater? He swears blind he’s happy with me; we share a beautiful life and I know he would do anything for me and the children. And also, what are these woman too him?
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"lovely husband" but a cheater?
Girl 😂😂😂
Sadly, that is the way it is with most men. I hear about it constantly.
this is quite normal
I may add that although he maintains they are friends, I have found sexual photos sent to him from each of the woman on occasions. He says he “never asked her to send anything”
What's weird about this?
Well it’s not strictly platonic if he’s enjoying receiving sexual photos from these woman he claims to not care about
Okay, this is a completely normal thing. What exactly are you worried about?