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Yet he ghosted bc of sx…so does that mean he wasn’t really after sex…
I also told him that it seems like sex is all he wanted and he said he didn’t want to go back and forth bc I misinterpret things he says
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Sis, that's some mixed messages from him for sure. Here's what I think is up:
When he says he didn't like how things started, that's probably code for saying the physical part moved too fast before an emotional connection.
But ghosting over sex also suggests that was still very much on his mind. Guys don't usually cut things off completely if they really cared about the girl.
He's probably feeling guilty now for just wanting your body at first instead of getting to know you truly. And you rightly called him out on that.
Saying you "misinterpret" is lame too - he knows exactly what he did by bailing after sx.
I'd be wary of letting him back in sis. Seems he's only hitting you up now because he wants more benefits without the commitment.
You deserve someone who wants ALL of you from jump, not just your body! Don't settle for confusing mixed messages. I'd keep it polite but distant with this dude personally. You can do better!
Definitely the king of mixed messages…. I think things did start with good intentions possibly in the beginning but I messed it up
When I say started off bad I mean I gave him a hard time and an attitude and went off on him on something so small lol
It was really projection and miscommunication
Ahh man, don't be so hard on yourself! We all screw up sometimes, especially when feelings are involved. It sounds like maybe you guys just got off on the wrong foot, but that doesn't necessarily mean things have to stay messed up. If he's still giving you mixed signals even after talking it out, then he's probably just as confused as you are about what he wants. But if you really think you overreacted at first and it was just a misunderstanding, cut yourself some slack! The important thing is you realize your part and are willing to work on communicating better. Why don't you shoot him a message and just be straight up - tell him you've been doing some thinking and you don't want one small argument to ruin a potential relationship if you guys click otherwise. Suggest a clean slate and promise to listen without getting defensive this time. If he's down to try again then at least you'll know you did your part to make it right. And if not, then you did all you could and it's on him. You got this!
He already rejected me… in the end …
Ah man, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear he rejected you after all. You really didn't deserve that after opening your heart to him.
Guys can be such jerks sometimes. Led you on, ditched you, and then didn't even have the decency to give things another real shot when he came crawling back. Some people just don't know how good they've got it until it's gone.
His loss, girl. You seem way too cool for a flake like that. Now it's time to shut the door on him for good and move on to bigger and better things!
Treat yourself to something you love doing this weekend, whether it's hanging with your girls, pampering yourself at home, or going out dancing. Anything to take your mind off that loser. You deserve a guy who can't wait to call you his girl!
This is just making room for someone who's really gonna see your worth. Chin up - his rejection is the universe's protection. Better days are ahead, I just know it!