Why do men not care about female predators at all or even support them?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I see a post of some young boy that slept with a female predator, there’s always tons of men saying they wish they met her when they were that age…

[MrOracle]

Men and women are different. I know that's not a popular idea, but it's true.

By the time a boy hits about 15 years old, 99.999999% of them are DYING for sex, are incredibly enthusiastic about it, and as long as the woman doesn't get pregnant (these guys aren't ready to be fathers, for several obvious reasons), the guy isn't going to experience any emotional trauma or damage - quite the opposite in most cases. Most guys don't NEED a long-term or committed relationship to enjoy sex, unlike most women. Now, if we're talking about 12 or 13-year-old boys, the situation would be different (and so would developmentally-disabled men, etc.). Maybe half of those would be ready for sex and would be fine, but the other half is NOT ready for it and COULD definitely have some emotional damage. But in practice, the boys in question that we hear about are almost always 15 or older. Pregnancy is the main danger for them.

When a female is the "child" with an older man, there's more of a chance that she's younger (12-14) than with a young boy and older woman, AND even if the girl is on the older end, she's MUCH more likely to be emotionally hurt if the guy doesn't want an ongoing relationship with her. Thus, it's more of a risk for women/girls than for men/boys, and so people see it differently.

I don't necessarily agree with HOW MUCH they see it differently, because there are definitely situations where female predators definitely need to be punished/held accountable and aren't, when men almost always are, but even though that's true, I do think you can't necessarily make direct comparisons between men and women's experiences.

[Cody2004]

I agree with this shit with what she's saying and it pisses me off. I've been on the other side of a female predator when I was younger. Obviously I'm not going in the detail it's disgusting, I wish more people would talk about this. The real consequences of this type of stuff I've been through from having to go to therapy trying to piece everything together. Let alone just understanding that stuff in the future you can't change but you can either let it dictate your future or stomp on it. I'm so glad someone mentioned this

[Drew-1990]

Because people have double standards. A female predator is still a predator. It doesn't matter that a teen boy is horny that is still taking advantage of him. He is not mature enough for that kind of relationship with an older woman, back guys are less mature than girls so it's probably worse at that age. We do tend to bury stuff like that for some reason.

[82lynx]

I had crushes on a couple of my teachers back in junior high—one being a really young and cute sub—but I never wanted to plow them. My own “sexual” development seemed to stop around that age. I consider myself fortunate in that regard as the pressure for most guys who want it but can’t get it must be awful. Actually I was well into adulthood before I was even aware that having a crush implied wanting sex for most people... yeah, I don’t get out much. 🙃

[DaBiggestBird]

Blinded by regret and lust, pathetic. It has to be sheer stupidity, what other valid explanation is there? As a sophisticated individual myself Da Biggest Bird, what they say is to a degree understandable but they aren’t shifting perspective to the other front. Clearly it’s just a skill issue at this point

[Berethor]

Males tend to be more sexual than females so they don't see it as a bad thing.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/8hdbns1Xdk0

[NamerOfStars]

Because women's capabilities aren't taken seriously, even as sexual predators.

[TheSpider]

I care, but what can a po man do? I can't shoot em. I can only advise you young whippersnappers to LIVE BETTER LIVES!!

[CozyCoffin]

Because, a lot of men wanted that to happen to them.

[verylovelyguy]

a lot of men sexually fantasize about their teachers

[BarryLiverstone]

Because these stories are rare and often times the predator is attractive which leads to the comments the guys leave.

[NamerOfStars]

Within the 1. US 2. juvenile 3. penal system alone, more 4. complaints of sexual assault by female guards and administrators EVERY SINGLE YEAR than have been made against priests in the 2,000-year worldwide history of the Catholic Church. It's not rare.

[BarryLiverstone]

And those are not the ones the guys comment on

[fafylone]

Maybe every men's fantasize.

[riverrat3]

Because most young guys want to be taught by an older more experienced woman

[Dongie]

If you were born a boy you wouldn't have to ask