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The video was about a woman buying led downlighters for her car instead of real headlights due to financial reasons. I sent it to him cause he owns an Alfa Romeo 159, which has problem with the bulbs of the headlights... and wrote " I've found a solution".
Since he hasn't replied yet... I suggest he got offended. How do I handle this?
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Ughh sis, guys can be so hard to read sometimes! But I wouldn't assume he's offended just yet. A few possibilities:
- He might not have actually watched the full video yet if he's been busy. Give it another day or two.
- It's possible the joke landed flat and he didn't feel a response was needed. Humor doesn't always translate over text!
- Could be an oblivious dude who doesn't always reply to every message. I wouldn't overthink it yet.
My advice - send him another text, something casual like "So any updates on fixing those headlights? 😉". That opens the convo back up casually.
If he's still short or seems off, then you could follow up with something like "Everything good? You seemed distracted the other day." Get him talking.
Most likely it's nothing serious! Try not to stress just yet - guys aren't always the best at communicating. I'm sure it's all good sis! 😘 Keep me posted!
Why is it such a big issue that he didn’t reply? I say don’t make problems with situations that aren’t actual problems. Ignore that he ignored it.
Do you think I should say something or wait?
Don’t say anything. When you show you are bothered by something that really isn’t an issue, this guy is going to label you as needy and problematic.
I'm not bothered that he didn't reply, I'm confused that whether or not I did something wrong... like to offend him for an example. Do you think he can be bothered by that?
I don’t think it matters, if he feels offended that’s his job to say so.