Am I in the wrong or is my boyfriend being mean?

[Anonymous]

I texted my boyfriend (30M) asking if he didn't wanna talk to me since I had called him and he ignored me. It's been happening a lot recently.

Then I asked if he didn't wanna be with me anymore since U feel like he's been distant. He never responded. It's been 2 days. I don't understand. Was I too much too early in the morning. I apologized but still nothing. Should I give him space

[BoopBoopBeep]

He may not be a morning person and feel like you're too much that early, but that's incumbent upon him to properly communicate it. I'd say it's time to move on either way though, because he's either tuned you out already or he can't communicate for shite, and neither speaks well of him.

[HawkPerception]

I don't see anything you did as wrong. Your boyfriend might just think you're a little too clingy at most, but I think the way he's reacting symbolizes something deeper. It could be he's no longer feeling a connection, he could be interested in another girl, or I could be over-assessing. He's in the wrong here for not communicating his thoughts clearly. My opinion is you should try to communicate again and if he ignores you again, just leave him. Seems kinda toxic in a relationship.

[HelpfulWoman]

just send a text to announce the break up and move the fuck on.
No DECENT man will ignore you like that. Take a hint

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I haven’t read it but if you think he is mean, odds are high he truly is mean.

[SotiCoto]

No response at all?

Have you considered he might have lost his phone? Or left it somewhere? Or had it damaged or stolen?

Alternatively, he might have been in an accident himself and be hospitalised somewhere without any means of contacting you.

[kylee2437]

Sounds like you are dating someone emotionally immature. A 30 year old should be able to say “hey I need space”. He knows what he is doing, and what he is doing is rude.

[AviatorTom]

What you did is confrontational, you caused a problem. Why ask him that? Would be better to say something positive, like "Sorry we didn't get to talk."

[sheikalana]

Stop texting! You're forcing communication with someone who doesn't want to talk to you. No message is the message. The more you try the more repulsed he will be. Go no contact.

[TheSpider]

He's a bum. Kick em to the curb. Not calling you for 48 hours? Oh HELL no.

[JacobJordan]

What happened prior to this. That is absolutely crucial. If you want honest opinions you have to provide context.

[JacobJordan]

Look at everyone making assumptions about both of you because you typed a hell of a lot with zero context for it. This is why context is so important. Post some context

[Flatmanlewis]

I feel like there are more details to this story we are not aware of.

[spartan55]

Yes, it sounds like you are being a pain in the ass.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would be swiftly moving on with my life.

[Sameone]

First you have to tell as what happened between you what is problem make him ignoring you

[RHK36]

Move on. The desperation is pushing him further away.

[kylee2437]

2 days of no interaction is a jerk move on his part. “Desperation” my ass

[RHK36]

I didn't say he wasn't a jerk. Jerks, guy or girl, would perceive your constant asking and apologizing as annoying. You can't reason with people that don't act right.

[Charlescc]

Straight he is missing out he's messing around u need to find you someone that will be there for you and care for you hold u snd love you not this ass ism sorry but he needs to get to reality

[noohair]

Boy is the operative word, just a 30 year old child. Is that what you really want? He is not changing.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to text you back when he is with his other girlfriend.

[boggboss]

He is wrong for not responding yes

[jahaims]

You were being annoying and insecure

[lildkman1010]

Sounds like he’s being a bit jerky

[KrakenAttackin]

He's done with your bullshit.

[jaskin777]

He cheating on you

[Sameone]

But what make you say this
And you don't know what happened whit them 🤔