Me and my boyfriend have been together on and off a year and half. He's my first boyfriend but he's been in 2 or 3 serious relationships before me. We got together when I was 19 and he was 27. Now I'm also 21 and he's 28. Just so you get a bit of a understanding of are background. So anyway he'd been working away for 3 months in Canada and he had work during Christmas.
I was a little upset because he missed the Christmas before as well and promised me he'd be around for this one. So anyway everytime I did see him all he ever wanted was sex, it was if he didn't really care about me. He started asking me to do things I didn't feel comfortable with like videos and pics whilst he was a way and I felt pressured to do it to make him happy.
The next time I visited him, I told him for the first time that I loved him. He didn't say it back and I wasn't mad just a little sad and disappointed so I told him I thought it be best we take a break because are relationship was becoming purely based on sex and that I thought he needed time alone to think over how he feels about me. He took it pretty well and we didn't talk much for at least a month till last week we met up he kept telling me how much he missed me and finally told me he loved me back. I was so happy I really thought the brake worked, we had a great day together. Till the next day he text me this.
I replied with this.
He hasn't replied back and is ingoreing me ever since. Was what I said out of line.
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