I don’t blame you for feeling how you feel. My brother is this way. He has to be told to do basic house chores. Honestly this would be a deal breaker for me because I need a clean space at home and I need a relationship to be productive. Washing dishes and taking out dishes when your partner is busy is something to do out of love. Maybe going grocery shopping when your partner normally does it but is very busy is a way of affection. You may get tired of asking him to do things / things not getting done without your guidance. What happens if something happens to you where you aren’t around to guide him? A 34 year old man shouldn’t be living like that.
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i'm sorry to hear that, and i think you're still nice to your boyfriend, so i don't see where the harsh is.. and bcs if i were you, i'd dump him.
i don't want to live with someone who isn't interested in making himself better, and just trying to make things difficult. it just wasted my energy and time.
and i already waste my energy to do chores at home for my parent and got blamed about trivial things, and it scares me if i met someone like that again, it just makes me fall off to the same hole.
Hsome kids never grow up. I hope you don’t have a child with this man. Get the hell out and find an adult to date.
Guidance? lolol. Does he want you to hold his hand? He's 34, not 12.
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