Am I being too harsh?

[CNoelle22]

So I haven't met this guy yet but I think he is a really cool guy but he lives like 2 hours away and when we planned to meet up I was thinking we could meet halfway by the beach and maybe explore the town and get food but all he wanted to do was a coffee date and I didn't go (canceled not ghosted) bc if I drive an hour and some change I expect a real date not a coffee date.

I don't know I feel way more invested than him bc of that ^^ and it bums me out bc I really wanted to get to know him better and hangout together. Im wondering if I was too harsh in canceling the date?

[Guy13]

I think you are right if he is not more cognizant that you are driving and gas is not cheap. Spend a day together and buy some lunch. No one said it couldn't be split like the travel was split. That would not have been a good guy to be in a relationship with...

[Billlewis]

No, ma'am, not at all in my opinion.

[es20490446e]

Won't date you ;)