Is my boyfriend in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

Not a while ago, I was out for the night to get some coffe with my friend.

My boyfriend was home, playing his video games as usual. And as I was heading home, I noticed someone following me and got really scared so I texted my boyfriend that I think I'm being followed, to which he just replied that I am probably imagining, and he continued playing the game and wasn't online for 20 minutes.

Needless to say, I was being followed as the man started running towards me and I ran into the shop to escape. I was later angry at my boyfriend, he just brushed off the fact I was terrified, and when I said that I wasn't imagining as he was clearly trying to do something to me , my boyfriend didn't even ask what happened.

He didn't care. I told him that, I just told you I had a traumatic event and you don't even ask me what happened, to which he replied "well I was going to ask you but I thought you are probably angry at me so I didn't " .

Is this normal behaviour? To me it isn't. I'm his girlfriend, and to my concern that I am being followed he just told me I am imagining and disappeared offline to go play his game. Am I overreacting?

[Gent207-2]

Your boyfriend is an asshole if he prioritizes a damn game over your safety.

Fuck the white knight shit it's called being a MAN - you defend your own no matter what.

Have the talk - explain how what he did made you feel and if he does not reciprocate or apologize DUMP HIM

[Anonymous]

What the hell?

You don't call your slacker, lazy ass boyfriend when you're being followed (He isn't your bodyguard and this isn't an action movie) you call the police.

[Asker]

Yeah but you don't DISMISS your girlfriend and go play games when she is im danger wtf?

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're both dumb to be honest.
Your boyfriend doesn't give a shit about you, and you're too stupid to call 911.

[Asker]

I am not stupid for not calling the police when I only suspected I was being followed lol

[Opinion Owner]

The police get paid with your tax money to serve and protect you. There's nothing wrong with calling them to say that a man was following you and started running at you. If they have a cruiser in the area they could definitely stop by and make sure you get home safely.
To me it's stupid to call them after the rape and assault when they can't really do fuck all for you.

[Asker]

Wtf? Are victims supposed to call them DURING rape? Get help and therapy you as*hole

[Opinion Owner]

You call the fucking police when you feel threatened so they can hopefully help you. Calling them after you get assaulted doesn't do shit for you, and calling your boyfriend is pointless unless you tell him to come pick you up.

[Faith18letsgo]

No that’s not normal at all even a normal friend would’ve come to protect you or at least cared about your well-being after and apologized. Not trying to be mean but I feel like your man ain’t shit and you should break up with him.

[DubiousIntentions]

Sounds like some albatross around your neck that you need to get rid of.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely, need to cut off his penis and surrender his man card to any true man, ditch the little bitch while you're at it as well

A real man would be out looking to flay anyone who is fucking about his significant other, lady friends or mother

[Danny_dan92]

To be fair what would you want him to do? Is your boyfriend spiderman, superman, batman?