Never had a boyfriend: what is wrong with me ?

I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship, never been asked out etc.. I have zero experience when it comes to guys. I've been hit on, flirted with and eventually noticed some guys being interested in me but still nothing above this. And I don't understand what it is about me that is so repelling to guys?

I am not ugly. I am pretty fit physically (well I'm not fat or overweight and have a pear body type) I don't put on any make up because I don't think it makes me prettier but I still take care of myself, and I dress rather casually. Concerning my personality, I am quiet, and reserved. I don't talk a lot to people I don't know but still if people talk to me, ask for help, or opinion, I'd gladly talk/help them. I am rather independent, in that I don't mind doing a lot of things alone. Also I am more the intellectual serious type who is interested in just about anything than the drama emotional type of girl. However once I know people, I love joking around and laughing with them. Also even if it takes time, I usually get on well with a wide variety of people.

I asked a guy friend about this and he told me he didn't know why I had no one. He just mentioned that back in the day when we were both in high school he always assumed I wasn't interested in a relationship and I feel like a lot of people just assume this about me.

It doesn't bother me this much. I am currently working hard on something important so I don't really have the time to go around and meet new people. To be honest my contact with the outer world aare rather limited right now but when I see how girls I know get boyfriends easily and are in long committed relationship, I wonder what it is that I do that is a complete turn off so that no one has ever asked me out ever ?

So do you have any idea? What are the typical behavior that you consider to be a complete turn off?
Never had a boyfriend: what is wrong with me ?
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