Guy friend is going vacation and he asked me what I wanted there and bought all the stuffs that I listed out for him. Why?

[Anonymous]

We are not even in a relationship. Not even very close.

[SueShe]

Perhaps that he needed the opinion of a woman on what to take and what not.

He may want to surprise a female that travels with him and rather than to ask her and to foil the plan, he thought of asking you instead. Nothing really unusual. As long as you made it clear to him that you don't want to be involved in any of his future plans, there is nothing to overthink.

Guys are strange sometimes and often lack communication skills. That is how misunderstandings happen.

[Asker]

Urmm but all the things I told him that I wanted like skincare and snacks, he bought for me and gave me. He even went down to my house to pass me the items hmm

[SueShe]

Oh, then there is something deeper that he did not tell you (or you did not tell us).

My opinion is that he has probably a crush on you and that he is attempting to show you indirectly. I don't see another reason why he would do that unless you are on welfare and cannot afford such things.

Whatever the reason is, I do think that he wants something from you even though you are not close enough. He may think that he is close...

[DoggyDude]

Wants to impress you.

[Asker]

Impress me for?

[DoggyDude]

That would be down to him, but most likely he's interested in you and wants you thinking he's a big shot able to spoil you.

[Asker]

Hmm all the things I told him that I wanted like skincare and snacks, he bought for me and gave me. He even went down to my house to pass me the items hmm

[Anonymous]

He must want something from you.

[Asker]

For instance what do you think he wants from me?

[laly520]

being friendly n nice

[DoggyDude]

I don't think any guy does that kind of thing purely out of 'friendlyness'. Possibly if their a father figure for someone, perhaps.

[laly520]

some guys do
I know few of em

[DoggyDude]

Well, it wasn't a real life situation I'd say flirt with one of them and see how they react. I'd put good money they would be happy to recipricate.

[laly520]

fair enough in my opinion

[In_Trance]

ask him why

[Anonymous]

He's an incel.