Why is a guy mad at me that I hooked up with his friend when he hasn't and wasn't ever going to ask me out?

[Anonymous]

He was yelling at me. I moved on? I didn't even know they were friends

[Anonymous]

So let me get this straight. You baited him trying to get him to ask you out (just so you could reject him), he saw through your game and didn't take the bait. So you sleep with his friend because one way or another you're going to"win". Am I missing anything? Boy, you showed him.🙄🤣

Why are some of you so evil, ruthless and petty? Just leave the guy alone.

[Asker]

Unfortunately that's not true. I didn't maliciously sleep with his friend or some guy he may know. I didn't think it would cost me a great guy. However I don't understand why he's mad since I tried putting myself out there and damn there begged so I took it as he wasn't interested🤷🏾‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

Well if that's the way you choose to see it I can't help you.
A tip for the future though. Instead of trying to manipulate him try showing some vulnerability. Your type is a dime a dozen. After seeing enough manipulators your game becomes very transparent.
He's angry because you simply didn't value him, just the ability to control him. No decent guy wants that. He doesn't realize yet this was the best turn of events. He dodged a bullet.

[Asker]

I don't know why you're using the words manipulate. When he asked me out I got scared and didn't say anything. After that I tried talking to him again but he ignored me. My best bet is you know of this guy cause of your assumptions. But alright ✌🏾

[Opinion Owner]

Oldest trick in the book. Woman says something suggestive to a guy (a lot of times sexual). Then she walks away and becomes shy.🤣 You're not fooling anyone. You're right, he asked you out. Right after you tried to get his attention. Then you developed shyness and rejected him. This is a very common tactic for your type. He just wasn't smart enough to realize it was a game from the start. And your mad that he wasn't going to keep pursuing after you rejected him.
If you valued him you'd lay your cards on the table. Because the important thing would be salvaging a miscommunication. But you don't value him, never did.

[Asker]

I still think of him years later. I was dealing with a lot of mental illness and sickness... I've always had crushes nothing much more. I was never confident to talk to that guy. But you are right. Lesson learned

[Asker]

He started bullying me after I left him alone. He was ego driven and butt hurt. I dodged a bullet too

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I always say you snooze you loose & in the case of the guy that was mad at you he was the snoozer.

[SotiCoto]

You're calling her loose? I mean she might be.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@SotiCoto Not at all.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he liked you but didn’t know how to say how. Also maybe it’s the friend and something on his part. Maybe the friend you hooked up with he’s jealous of and girls always prefer the friend to him so he was mad that out of the people you could’ve chose you chose him.

[LaurenM1997]

He’s just jealous that the other guy got to fuck you and he didn’t

[JHAYES317]

Not necessarily…though that could possibly be it…but any guy putting the pussy on a pedestal has got issues

[LaurenM1997]

@JHAYES317 in my opinion it is cause why else would he be yelling for?

[JHAYES317]

@LaurenM1997 he could feel like that girl is toxic…

[LaurenM1997]

@JHAYES317 true

[lightbulb27]

Because he's not grown up man and doesn't take responsibility yet.

[BearKitty]

He liked your attention and it made him feel special. Most people love being adored and wanted, even if they don't want that person back. You hooking up with his friend took that away. Kudos to you girl.

[CuriousAnt]

I guess he was indecisive and couldn't sort out what he wanted before it was too late. You can't know for sure unless he tells you, and I'm not sure he even knows himself...

[firenine909]

He might be shy but he probably wanted to fuck or date you and would’ve done so if he knew you were interested

[Asker]

He knew I was interested

[firenine909]

He might be really bad at making moves on you, what did he say when he was mad?

[Asker]

I can't remember it's all a blur I just remember the screaming. Like you hooked up with him? It was heated

[firenine909]

Do you black out or your mind goes crazy during sex? How excited do you get hooking up?

[Finchie40]

How would you feel if your girlfriend hooked up with your guy friend that you kind of liked but weren’t sure

[tiff_tiff]

Wow. vLot of emotion. I'm guessing he wanted you.

[joehypo1]

Because he did not have the balls to get with you and now he is jealous I don't know

[Soldieronmission1]

His loss! So what now he asked you out or wanted to hook up?

[Asker]

Niether

[Soldieronmission1]

Dang he's really missing out right! You still want to hook up with him?

[capman70]

Wow seriously how you feel if it was you & theanother girl went behind your back stop with your excuse you both are obviously interested in each other why go looking else where ?

[Asker]

He wouldn't approach me. He knew I was REALLY into him

[Asker]

He seemed like a player anyway

[spartan55]

Of course. He probably had no idea you liked him.

[Asker]

@spartan55 he knew. He tried using a girl to get me jealous I ignored him

[spartan55]

Did you tell him?

[Asker]

@spartan55 I don't remember honestly. But I was obsessed with him

[JHAYES317]

1. Just cause a guy doesn’t ask you out doesn’t mean they are interested…


2. Maybe he thinks you are a bad influence on his friend?

[MrDaveAPSI]

He's upset that, because he wasn't doing anything, you moved on. If you truly ever really wanted HIM, you wouldn't have

[moneymagnet24]

Dude you did hook-up with his friend just to make him jealous. No?

[Asker]

Incorrect

[Asker]

Did you even read my post lol

[Anonymous]

Welp. Time for him to put his big boy pants on and GTFOI

[noohair]

Maybe he is mad at his friend but he is targeting you. His friend broke the Bro Code.

[spartan55]

Tell him to fuck off and then laugh.

[Anonymous]

You're a dude.

[Asker]

What? No help at all

[Anonymous]

It’s too close to home, that’s all.

[laly520]

he childish

[Danny_dan92]

Jealousy