Is it normal for a guy not to talk to you or awknowledge you much at the gym but try talking to you outside of it?

[Anonymous]

[Rainwavy]

I would think so just because both of you are trying to workout. Maybe next time you guys talk you could ask to workout together? 🤷🏿‍♀️

[Asker]

What if he’s not attracted to me? 😆 I’m not as in great of shape as him right now.

[Rainwavy]

I guess you just have to find out. I mean if he says yes to working out then you can get to know him and maybe something will happen outside of the gym. I don't know... I'm trying to figure out things myself. Lol

[Asker]

Hehe all good 😊

[Rainwavy]

If it was me and I really wanted to get to know him. I would start slow asking questions weather and stuff or how to do a machine. And then ease into it getting to know him more.

[Asker]

Well once I smiled at waved and he like subtly turned around but before that he was always smiling and striked up conversations sometimes lol 😆

[Rainwavy]

Was he talking to someone or maybe he didn't see you? I don't know... Did you make eye contact?

[Asker]

He might have thought I was face timing someone cuz my phone was inmy hand and I waved so lol

[Rainwavy]

Yeah. So I would approach him and strike up a simple conversation or something. You never know maybe something my come out of it.